Want him only for sex...How would you want a girl to say this to you?

[Anonymous]

I am 24 and lost my virginity not too long ago to a guy that I had known for 6 months prior. However, we were and are not in a relationship. I want to tell him that all I want is a sexual relationship with him. He's single, I'm single so I don't see the harm. I know that he is not ready to be in a relationship either so this seems perfect. I like him but I don't like him to the point that I want something serious with him. I just feel more secure sleeping with him. Probably because he is the first and only guy that I have ever had sex with. Basically, how do I let him know that this is ALL I want from him without sounding psycho or like a wh0re? How would you want a woman to tell you this? Is it also better to hear via text or phone? FYI: I told him last week that I didn't want to have sex with him anymore period. How do I reverse this? I didn't mean it when I said it but I felt like I was supposed to say that. I want him badly

[Anonymous]

"I told him last week that I didn't want to have sex with him anymore period. How do I reverse this?"

Say you've been thinking about it (and him :P) and just tell him. Be straight about it. Say you want to have sex but only sex. Make your intentions about the relationship (or lack thereof) clear. If you've had sex before, he will likely jump at the chance and you'll have a f*** buddy.

I think it's best to tell in person, (not, however in a situation where you can have your first "session" if he accepts. Unless that's your thing) as it's kinda personal.

Just be honest and tell him you liked the first time, so you'd like to again.

GL

[funky5medina]

I would want her to tell me that she doesn't want a serious relationship. no attachments. but that she is interested in me intimately. I would be understanding and tell her to feel free to call whenever and that it would be great to hang out as good friends and not just as f*** buddies

[Anonymous]

think about it before you make the decision of a sexual relationship...most of the time someone gets attatched and hurt. but if you're for sure that that is what you want then go for it. everyone has a friends with benefits

text him and ask him what he's doing and then ask him to comeover and make it sound seductive so he kind of gets it and that will help with telling him you want him just for sex

[mikkie180]

Tell me you changed your mind and that you are okay with friends with benefits if he is. My guess is that he will be okay with it.

[dlop3z]

Just be straight-forward with him, let him know that when you said you didn't want to have sex that it was a mistake. Let him know what you want

[GIntrovert]

Just tell him, but he might be hesitant because it seems like you're playing mind games.

Just ask him if he knows what FWB are and if he doesn't explain to him, then explain that at the moment in time that's what you want with him. Make it very clear or you might hurt him. He has already slept with you, so it's highly unlikely that he will turn you down.

[anaughtymouse]

Just be upfront. No guy would ever say no if a girl came up and said "Okay, I want sex. Nothing else. Just sex and to be friends, no strings no commitment. You game?"

[timo9080]

i would just tell him straight up. for a lot of guys it's their dream to have a girl for only sexual relations and no other commitment or responsibility. but in the long run, you're only hurting yourself by stealing the magic of what a true and loving relationship will have, and removing the "love" aspect. it will be fun for the time being, but hurt any later real relationships.