How bad does it hurt when a guy gets hard but then nothing else happens?

[Anonymous]

Like we didn't have sex. I led him on.. but he said its gonna hurt a little then go away :( How bad does it hurt?

[armyant]

If nothing happens then the penis will allow blood to leave it and it will slowly deflate. It's not painful at all. It's mostly just the pain of disappointment. Like your boyfriend told you all about this romantic cruise you two were going to take and built it up and then at the last moment when you were all packed to go he just called you and told you he was dumping you.

[mikkie180]

It does not hurt at all.

[Rainbows]

The whole "blue balls" phenomenon is mostly just an urban legend that guys use to manipulate girls into getting them off. If it did hurt, and it probably didn't, I doubt it hurt very much at all.

[Asker]

He was the one who didn't wanna do it and said we should wait because that's what I wanted originally. he was really sweet and gentleman like, so I believe it

[jtj25m]

I suggest you do some research before you make claims as such. The veins which carry blood to the heart and the arteries that carry blood away do restrict and enlarge to allow for an erection in the penis. If a male achieves sexual release that promotes the process of them returning to normal, if he does not, then 'blue balls' do occur. Is it extremely painful or the like, no. But it can be uncomfortable and slightly irritating for some. Not an urban legend at all. Biological fact.

[Rainbows]

That is why I said "mostly" and "probably". I am aware that it can occasionally cause mild discomfort, but the effects of it have been exaggerated to such a degree that I find my original point still stands.

[experimenting360]

If you don't mind me butting my head in like this then I would just like to say how bout you grow a d*** get real horny without reales and then say its an urbane legend what your saying right now is like "screw your pain it doesn't exist because I don't feel it" this is one of the biggest "screw you"s I have ever read yes it gets exaggerated by men that just want it, but for some of the cases yes it does hurt allot.

[armyant]

I have a d*** and have had countless erections without release, yet have never experienced this apparently very common pain.

[Antichrist_superstar]

Blue balls is real it hurts like hell till you get off

[leviathan]

it hurts quite a bit. especially if you have done it to him multiple times in the last few days. however it is nothing he can't fix with a little bit of personal time with his member, although not nearly as enjoyable if you had finished it for him

[Anonymous]

It's a huge pain to his ego, but not to his penis.

[armyant]

What does this have to do with egos again?

[Anonymous]

Well depends did he get blue balls?

or was it pain from being so hard?

[Anonymous]

you teasing bitch

[Anonymous]

Real Bad! =[

[Asker]

Really? like what kind of pain? for how long?

[Opinion Owner]

Burning sensation like an hr or less. =[