Simple: I have small boobs.

[Anonymous]

I have small boobs, my boyfriend really likes large. I feel inadequate. How do I get over it? He has told me his preference. He says he likes mine, but I don't feel hot, like I'm not as obviously hot as other girls we see in the street. Because he obviously notices them (we live in hot weather and, understandably, they wear low cut tops)... they bounce a lot. Mine don't. I know this shouldn't matter, but it does to me. How can I love my small breasts? I don't feel sexy enough because you never see small breasts displayed as sexy the way big ones are (in Playboy, porn, VS catalogs, movies, etc). If a woman is considered sexy and she happens to have small breasts, people say she's hot despite them not because of them, which sucks. I'm sure my boyfriend would love it if I could magically grow DDs. I mean my own self image problems are exacerbated because I already know he likes big ones better and has even admitted it would be more fun if mine were bigger, so when we're out and we see a busty girl, well, I can't help but feel bad. How can I ignore it and even love them? Feel 200% secure with them? I just can't! Thanks.x

[miya26]

You need to remember he chose you for a reason. Although you may not have ample breast tissue, you probably excel in other places. I'd suggest you find your best asset and play it up. For example: if you have a nice butt, wear panties and things which make you feel sexy because they accentuate your butt. Always make yourself believe you're the most desirable woman on the planet, and men will start believing it too. Most men find self confidence attractive. Whereas, self doubt and insecurity can be huge turn off.

As for the bigger breast = bigger brains theory, I seriously doubt that. Look at the stereotype about Asians being smart, but notice they generally have smaller breast. I’ve known geniuses with flat chests and I’ve known some smart, big breasted women as well. I don’t believe there’s any direct link between breast size and intelligence.

[xbubblesx90]

I have the same problem with you. I have size 32B breasts and as much as my boyfriend assures me how much he loves them it is hard to feel confident about them when all your hear is the majority (not all) of guys going on about big breasts! I found this helped though, my boyfriend was telling me how a lot of guys just all say that and agree with each other because they want to fit in. Its different for us girls I know, we just say what we think, a lot simpler lol ;) x anyway...apparently a lot of guys don't like big breasts...apparently a lot of guys love girls who are in proportion. I am petite myself so I guess I am in proportion with my breasts lol. I would appreciate it if some guys would comment on this and fill me in on how they feel about breast size...

[sadnddepressed]

32 Bs are a great fukn size.

[xbubblesx90]

:) thanks, I'm pleased someone thinks that

[sadnddepressed]

that bs. he shouldn't be looking at another girls breast to begin with. everyone has their own preferences and yes I like boobs too. If a girl I was dating had small breast and she told me she was insecure I would tell her everyday that I love her body and that I wouldn't change it for anything. I would not tell her that it would be funner if they were bigger.There's nothing wrong with small breast and on the right type of women. Sometimes small breast fit a girls body better than large breast, I'm sure you have a wonderful body and you have nothing to be ashamed of.

[amatuer_zombie]

i don't care about IQ's of a girl as long as they are not too low and dumb

for me small or large boobs doesn't matter as long as they are firm and not weirdly shaped

if they are big its like a bonus for me

if I love someone,boobs shouldn't be a prob

just ask ur bf,do you love me or my boobs?

if he seriously has a prob, dump that fool

[mibingha1]

no I like small boobs anyways I think its hot because all boobs are is fat sure they are cushiony but still you know

[mibingha1]

simple get another guy that appreciates it because I got a small thing but if the girl don't appreciate it anyway she not good enough or me and he is not good enough or you

[TallCreativeGuy017]

What size are you?

[jsmith007]

breast size is over rated.. honestly I've dated girls with big boobs and small ones but what really mattered was personality . if ur a fun girl then having small boobs won't affect ur dating life at all and you should feel sexy no matter what you wear because confidence can be very sexy

[Anonymous]

if he really thought it was a problem he'd just leave you

small boobs are fine. you still have something there to grab and suck and play with :x

[kaybee]

Yeah but he shouldn't be telling her that hers aren't big enough for him. that'd be like a girl being like 'ur d***s not big enough for me but I like you regardless' its rude, hurtful and completely unnecessary

[Opinion Owner]

I agree, I'd never say something like that to a girlfriend and I find it crazy how many girls come ask a question saying their boyfriend said their breasts or p**** isn't good enough o_O