I bled on my boyfriend's lap. Help me?

[Anonymous]

So, we were over his house watching tv. He then pulled me into his lap and we started to kiss and make out. I was hoping my period wouldn't be here yet. I stopped for a minute because I was embarrassed, and when I stood there was a big red spot on his pant leg. His face was full of disgust I was so motified and ashamed of myself and started to cry. He pulled me over and hugged me and said it was okay but it just didn't feel like it. I felt gross. I haven't talked to him since for about 2 or 3 days because I don't want him to bring it up or anything... Help me?

[3gmoney3]

He's young, and it's a little freaky the first time something like this happens, but honestly, it's not that big of a deal. Guys in relationships get pretty used to the fact that they're going to see menstrual blood on various things every once in a while. I once woke up to find my face covered in dried blood because I'd been going down on my girlfriend the night before and the lights were out and she didn't realize her period had started. Once I reassured myself that the blood wasn't coming out of my head and that I wasn't dying, I had a good laugh about the fact that I looked like I was wearing clown makeup. She was much more horrified and apologetic, and I was just like, "Eh, my semen has been in your mouth plenty of times. It's not the end of the world. I can wash it off."

So go talk to him, I'm sure it's fine. If you get a little bottle of OxiClean and put a bow on it, I'm sure it will make him laugh (OxiClean spray, by the way, is amazing at getting period blood stains out of clothes).

[Asker]

Thanks so much.

[dogbert444]

It's never a big issue. When you are eventually someone's wife, things like this happen. It's not your fault, so don't blame yourself.

Please go talk to him now. The longer you leave it, the harder it will be! A decent guy will think it's nothing!

[MadeInAmerica]

So both of you were naked or it bled through your clothes?

[Asker]

I was in my underwear. I forgot to mention that part.

[Superfreakpr]

It's no big deal baby girl it could happen to anyone, it is very natural and this can happen anywhere, you really have no control over it. If your boyfriend is disgusted then he is an idiot and immature😉

[Anonymous]

It's fine just talk it out

[Asker]

Okay.