It kinda freaked me out the one time I did this (my first g/f). I didn't expect there to be so much blood and I was worried for her. She quickly cleaned everything up with a trip to the bathroom and change of sheets. I wouldn't call it gross. Just a rare but natural experience.
well if he know ur a virgen then he should know that that has to happen...like it or not he should only have to deal with it once if he stays with u...unless he is terrifed of blood or something...i think they should be fine with it
how old are you - really? Because at your age you should be able to know that a guy no he doesn't think its gross - its normal almost every woman loses it that way - it will hurt at first but should get better depends of course if he knows what he is doing!
well depends you know but I mean with me my first time was with my boyfriend that I have now
at 1st I was scared bcuz I wasn't comfortable with myself I thought that me losin my virginity was going to be regretful
but my boyfriend helped me thru it and talked bout it b4 we actually did it that makes a girl comfortable
if you guys are ready and ur not so sure talk to him and I'm sure he'll take the time to talk to you bout it and make you feel comfortable that sure helped me
so don't worry bout popin the cherry being gross cu you don't bleed as much well with me I didn't bleed a lot it was a small amount until later I was bleeding the whole day and my boyfriend didn't make a deal bout it we were both very comfortable of course I was scared bout the pain it was going to cause me but in the end it feels good and plus I'm sure ur boyfriend is already mature at his age so don't worry bout it