Do guys think it's gross if they pop a girl's cherry because it bleeds?
I have a boyfriend and we have done everything but have sex because I am kind of scared because me being a virgin ,my cherry isn't popped .. and I don't know if he will think its gross or not
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What will determine whether or not he thinks it is "gross", will be determined by how emotionally mature he is.
As your profile indicates your age as 30+ years old, I'll assume that your boyfriend is close in age.
Do either of you have any special emotional, developmental or psychological factors beyond the loss of your virginity, that bear consideration?
Assuming that there are no such considerations, if he's that old and is squeamish about such things, I would suggest re-evaluating the relationship.
Any emotionally mature guy beyond the age of... I don't know... 14? should have no thought on the matter beyond your comfort and pleasure.
Please excuse my curiosity. How does it come to be that in today's world, you have maintained your virginity beyond the age of 30?
What Guys Said 9
What Girls Said 9
no why would he think that all men have to pop some girls cherry in their
lifetime and its normal... and maybe you won't even bleed. I only bleed a little but only
after it was done and over with. plus men usually don't even think about that their more focused on the pleasure a virgin gives them. don't worry about that if you truly love each other
that won't even come to mind during the experience!
well depends you know but I mean with me my first time was with my boyfriend that I have now
at 1st I was scared bcuz I wasn't comfortable with myself I thought that me losin my virginity was going to be regretful
but my boyfriend helped me thru it and talked bout it b4 we actually did it that makes a girl comfortable
if you guys are ready and ur not so sure talk to him and I'm sure he'll take the time to talk to you bout it and make you feel comfortable that sure helped me
so don't worry bout popin the cherry being gross cu you don't bleed as much well with me I didn't bleed a lot it was a small amount until later I was bleeding the whole day and my boyfriend didn't make a deal bout it we were both very comfortable of course I was scared bout the pain it was going to cause me but in the end it feels good and plus I'm sure ur boyfriend is already mature at his age so don't worry bout it