Does my best friend love me or lust me?

[Anonymous]

My best friend was drunk once and told me he was in love with me. but then we ignored it. we talk everyday and have amazing conversations that last forever. he tells me about girls he likes and girls he hooks up with but always tells me he loves me more than any other girl and I try to act normal and say me too. and he asks me how much I love him. he gets jealous when I talk about other guys. but the thing is, I feel like he's just being a horny teenager. we live in separate places btw. so I'm thinking maybe I'm doing a bad idea thinking about him so dam much.

[Siendo]

How far apart do you guys live - is it for school/?

I would talk to him.. I had a thing where my friend would say stuff when drunk, then he would ignore me, then come around then ignore me, at the end of the summer he finally told me how he felt, but I was leaving so I did not say anything. Now - I wish I had said something any way. THEN we were just I dif. cities. NOW - dif. continents. lol

& Anyways, you guys got the I love U's...

;-)

[joshua12]

if he talks to you about other girls that doesn't mean he doesn't love you it just means that he doesn't think that you like him in that way so he sees no need to hold back. I was in a similar situation recently a girl that I am still today am in love with but doesn't feel the same way. I used to actually ask for her help to get girls but I would trade a million of the ones that I was chacing for her

[michitas]

I love my best female friend too :). I also find her very attractive and used to get jealous when she was in relationships with other guys. I got over it and matured. I think it's just a matter of state of mind.

he might love you as a friend and lust for your body. there's nothing wrong with that :). it's the actions that count and not what one thinks.

[Siendo]

What does it mean to love you as a friend & lust after your body - I mean what more do you need for a relationship?

[DanteThomas]

He wants your pusy. sorry but the truth hurts. He wants you for pleasure, and hopes that you'll be there. But when he sees the right woman walk by he's gone.

[Littletad]

Every player has to find love himself. Maybe he does feel different for you. But the fact is, you could just be another lay for him, only more "special". It's up to you if you feel you deserve that.

[ChaosPrefect]

There's different kind of love. Who knows how he feels for you. Frankly, why don't you talk to him about this? Maybe you guys will find you really like each other and end up together. If he's talking to you like that and has these huge long conversations, he definitely cares for you more than just physically, so see where it goes.