You sleep with your girlfriend's best friend?

[Anonymous]

Okay... say your in a relationship with a girl and she's pretty, comes from a good family, great personality, and you tell her all the time you want to marry her. you've dated her for 3 years and you are best friends... so the relationship is pretty serious right? then after a night of heavy drinking.. you sleep with your girlfriend's best friend who is also very attractive, but different from your girlfriend as far as body goes. your girlfriend has big hips, smaller breasts, average height, bigger ass (that you tell her all the time that you love about her!). her best friend is average height but very petite and larger breasts, smaller hips and small butt. okay... so who is better?

[l-hedoniste]

Men cheat on their gfs with their friends because they're horny, sloppy, and inexperienced.

What these guys don't realize is that if a girl's friend wants to f*ck him, it's not because she's hot for him. It's because she wants to score ego points by humiliating her friend. Savage, mean-girl bullsh*t to be sure, but that's what it is.

This means, of course, that it's very likely that the girlfriend will know eventually. It's not enough to steal her best friend's man; her friend has to *know* she stole him.

So when my gf's friend starts hitting on me, not only is she not really interested in me, AND likely to expose us eventually, but she is also an enemy and a traitor to my girlfriend. Not only would I turn her down, but I would warn my girlfriend.

[Asker]

Lol yes.... girls and guys are so cruel. for a guy its ego points knowing he can f*** his girlfriends best friend. and for the gfs best friend its ego points knowing she can steal him! ahh its sooo truee!!

[Anonymous]

In reality, yeah... Guys cheat- but so do women. It varies on the individual and the situation.

From your example, if the guy was more appealed to the smaller hips and larger breasts- than yes, he would be more "willing" to cheat on you with someone he found more physically attractive.

As no two people are the same, I could say "per se'" what he would like. Though, if he was going to cheat- he might as well cheat with someone that's at least sexually appealing.

I don't support the whole thing about cheating. Personally it's much easier to just say "Hi, we're broken up, bye." and hang up the phone. It takes like 3 seconds and displays a clear message that you are wanting to experiment with other people rather than be tied down.

[Asker]

Yeah exactly! I mean.. you have to figure if the guy in the situation cheats on his girlfriend with her best friend, then he def. finds her friend sexually appealing enough to throw the relationship away and do somethiing that mean to his gf!!

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah - it's basic innate behavior. If you see something shiny, it catches your interest. If you interest is enough to overload your respect of the relationship (with your current gf/bf) then that interest will motivate you, to do something you otherwise wouldnt. So here's the example: Bob is walking with his fiance Linda- she is slightly upset because he didn't remember her birthday. While walking through the fair, bob see's jennifer- an old friend. They exchange numbers. "Enter new girl"

[Asker]

Lol.. I'm sure alcohol is a motivator too as well as sexual interest! both combined and its like a ticking tiime bomb hahaha. I c what iu mean!

[Opinion Owner]

Haha no kidding. Lol it's always interesting to watch the drunks at our local fair.

[Anonymous]

No, if alcohol was involved most likely its because they were drunk/horny and she was a warm convenient hole. Not that it's an excuse but it doesn't mean the girl they cheated with is in any way superior to the girlfriend. If anything a guy wouldn't think very highly of a girl who would sleep with her friends man. Look at it like this, the nastiest crackhead prostitutes still have guys who pay them for sex. Its all about sex and getting off, not because of any desirable traits the girl he cheated with had. I hope you dumped his ass you deserve better. He will probably look back and feel like sh*t for messing up a good thing.

[ambermarie]

no.. from wut iv heard guys cheat becuz there assholes and take the chance wen they get it!

also wen a guy cheats he uses a diff part of his brain and don't realize he's messin up, that's no reason to excuse his actions tho.. and as for ur suposed best freind sounds like she needs her ass stompt

[Asker]

Thats crazy!! how could a guy not know he's messing up when he f***s his gfs best friend ?! Lol. and yes, she does!! but I'm pretty much over it now, because he realizes he f***ed up!

[Hughman]

If the characters are the same, probably the petite other girl. Can't really say though without pics.

Guys cheat because they are bored, horny, are looking for an upgrade or any mixture of the 3.

[hihellohey]

cause we lose interest... its mean but what's the point in cheating unless you lose interest in your particular other.. if your always interested there is always a reason to come back but sometimes things just get dull and want to change... now I personally think breaking up then waiting to get with someone else would be a better choice cheating is scummy

[Asker]

We had great sex and I'm very attractive. I hadn't lost interest in him..? do guys just lose interest like that easily in women? How can anyone get married then? lol .. he didn't show any signs he was uninterested and he convinced me the opposite that's why this shocked me so much. And yes cheating is scummy esp. when its ur girlfriend of 3 years' best friend! How low, hurtful, selfish, and deceiving! That's backstabbing at its finest right there and I would never wish it upon anyone. ty for ur comment!

[lunchbox22]

Probly her integrity is more acctractive...what an ass

[leonphelps713]

its a sexual thing you love ur girl and ur probly not even compatible with her friend plus it would never last so don't test ur luck get it out of ur head and move on tell the friend that it was fun but it won't be happening again

[Anonymous]

sometimes it's just because they were drunk and she was there