Dating a guy with a large penis?

This question is geared more towards people in the 18-24 category, I am generally quite knowledgeable about things of a sexual nature but I am very unsure about this question. I am dating a man right now who is the most endowed person I have ever slept with, he's 8 inches long and 5.5 around. The largest person I had ever been with before him was 6.5 long and roughly 4 around. This may sound like a silly concern but I'm wondering if the size of his penis will affect how "tight" I am, basically wondering if he's going to make me loose or is that indeed just a myth. I have tried to research this but its quite difficult to get a solid answer on the matter. Insight would be wonderful, preferably from people with experience in this situation. Thanks in advance!
Updates:
+1 y
Just to clarify I meant at lest in the 18-24 category, older is fine. Also I'd like to add that the reason I was wondering is I'm fairly petite in the first place. Sex with him almost always starts out somewhat painful no matter how excited (wet) I am.
0 0

Most Helpful Guys

  • well... if you're worried about your tightness... don't be. since women pass small humans through there, and manage to regain "tightness," a penis of any size should not cause a problem... you MAY begin to be more relaxed and accustomed to his larger penis...hopefully, so as not to make it painful ANY time. the term "loose" generally refers to a woman that has had a lot of sex.. of course, it stems from the THOUGHT that if she does, she'll LITERALLY be loose. while there may be some variation throughout our life with your tightness, remember there are muscles involved, and you can always do exercises to help, if you want to increase tightness. as described here:

    link

    have fun with this guy... you may go the rest of your life wishing you could always have one that size... who knows?

  • Let me say in the beginning...that a man's penis that is 5 1/2 inches in circumference, (girth) is not a large penis in that respect. His length, however, (8 inches) is rather long. The girth you quoted is "average" and the penis is not going to permanently alter the size of your vagina, at all. Many men have a penis that is significantly larger than 5.5 inches around, and even then if a woman finds it initially "stretching" that feeliing is more pleasant , from what I am told and the stretching goes back to 'normal" after a sort time.

    No harm, no foul.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't know if it's a myth, but if it isn't there is a simple exercise you can do to tighten yourself back up. Simply flex and release the muscles down there for about 10 minutes a day and you'll stay normal.

  • no he won't make you loose.. I read in a magizine that you nevr go back as tight as you were wen you were a virgin but you do tighten back up..

  • It's is DEFINITLY a myth. Seriously it won't affect at all how tight you are, I know from experience... Don't worry and enjoy.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

0 1
  • I'm a bit older than your preferred age range. Whilst I'm not that long, I'm further around, so have some experience in this area. None of the women I've ever slept with have ever said it's made them looser...that's the ones who could take it in the first place! So I'd say it's a myth...relax and enjoy!