Well, there are kind of different kinds of sex that I'm sure you can probably handle. I bruise like a peach but I can handle rough sex. Unless you have a medical condition where any physical contact causes pain I think you will be OK.
As a virgin, your first few times need to be slow and gentle. Regardless of what the guy wants and regardless of how easily a girl bruises. Any decent guy is going to now to treat a virgin with more softness then a girl who has sex before. But that is up to you to make him do that. If he starts to hard or fast, you have to tell him to stop. Men aren't born knowing what every woman wants and needs in bed. So you have to tell him what feels good and what doesn't. I don't mean demanding he do it a certain way but you have every right to say ouch if something hurts. A guy with any experience is usually going to expect a woman to be different then the next so you won't be weird if something hurts.
There are guys who love really rough sex all the time. There are guys who would love to put a cigarette out on a woman. Or tie her to the bed and beat her. Then there are guys that just like it a little rough, meaning faster and more grabbing. Then there are guys who like an occasional rough romp but love making love most of the time. And guys who hate anything rough and just want gentle, love making. That is the same with women. That's why it's important for you to speak up about your needs and make it clear that you don't want to dabble in the more pain/pleasure mixing in sex.
I actually like it a little rougher and my partner likes love making. But I have no problem accommodating for him. As long as you try to be an attentive lover, you will be OK.
well I like gentle sex, and well my boyfriend is willing to do it, so I guess he likes it too...
Yes there are guys that like gentle, sensual sex, as I am one of those men. I can really get into caressing and touching my wife in a very gentle, yet teasing way. I like to relax her and make her feel oh so good, my wife at times likes it a little rougher and I can accommodate her for that, but usually I am all about seducing her with warm caresses and making her very relaxed and feeling good, I also like to go down on her and give her pleasure that way. The more pleasure she feels the more I like it. As for your situation I wouldn't follow his lead, let him know the more gentle he is with you the more you will enjoy it and want to do it again. Sex should be a beautiful and pleasurable experience, not something you dread because it hurt so much the first time. I hope this helps you some.
Why do I never meet these guys? lol
Yea. I definitely agree with shes-a-lady, there's needs to b more guys like you outt there.
Well thank you ladies, I appreciate the comments. All I can say is guys like me are usually right under your nose and you are never really aware that they are there at all. Some of us are the proverbial "nice guys" that go largely unnoticed.
As a guy, I feel that a woman's body is her own thing and when I have sex with her then I want her to know that I respect that its hers and I only want to make sex mutual between the two of us.
And as a female, you should be more adamant on what happens to your body. If a guy wants to be rough, tell him then he won't get any sex. You aren't a guy's plaything or humping post, you're a wonderful lady that deserves to be treated as such, especially in bed.
Of course, you should also be open minded about trying new things, but you should always, especially when it comes to your body, try them when you're comfortable and with someone you can trust.
Very nice answer.
Great answer.
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I'm a virgin too, and from the way I see it, soft is the only sex worth it. Hard is just being barbaric. Soft arouses the most sensational impulses, and as the great Tantric Masters say, "Anything in sex is better when done at half the speed." Not all guys like rough sex, for one, I wouldn't.
Just go with your own flow, don't try to please anyone else, because you are not a servant, but a master of yourself. Girls have this attitude of surrender, which is good... but that doesn't mean they should do things just to please their boy. And maybe it's about time guys learned to be a little more gentle too... but then again, there already are guys who are gentle! :-)
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