For Guys: Why do you lie to girls to get them to have sex?

I'm not saying all guys do, but I was just wondering why some guys don't go for girls who just want to hook up and instead lie to to girls who don't want to have sex. When I say lie I mean "your the only girl for me" "i want to be with you" just stuff like that
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  • I feel this is very much a maturity issue, in that if he is willing to lie to get sex, odds are he is willing to lie about any number of other things as well. These are also behaviors that tend to fall into the idea that they are not really accountable for their own actions, and there are a line of excuses for how or why they do things that are generally unacceptable not only in the eyes of women but society as well. I would be very aware of people like this, because this is not isolated to gender as women will do this too. If you listen, you may find there are lots of people who blame everybody else for their woes. As for your initial question? There are many reasons guys will lie, ranging in reason from insecurity to downright cowardice.

  • Some guys do and others don't. I use to be one of those guys who just wanted a good f***.I never looked for love in a relationship because I was scared of love .to me it wasn't just about sex it was just the pursuit of getting the girl. that was my thing bag em do them leave them. I know it was wrong. But not every guy just want sex it could just be the rush you get from the pursuit or the ability to say well if I wanted to f*** her I can. I'm not defending guys who do this I know its all wrong to use women I'm just saying its not always about sex.or sometimes guys will do that just to put on a front so that they can prove to people that they are a playa or trying to prove that they are not gay

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  • A guy doesn't go after girls JUST because they want to have sex.

    This guy that you introduced to us probably likes, may be even loves the girl that doesn't want to have sex. That makes a HUGE difference. If there was no difference, men would just hire prostitutes instead of having sex with their wives.

  • hmm..'cause any girl would slap him if he says he just wanna f**k you ...

  • Guys say it because girls believe it sometimes.

  • if I said I wanna fuk you you wuldnt let me untill I got to know you

  • They are horny.