the big key is constant stimulation and fore play. First I would recommend starting out in the fallowing outfit: T-shirt, bra, and panties, first you start rubbing the top of your pussy over your undies while playing with your boobs over your bra and shirt for about a 3 mins, then while sticking your hand down your panties and rubbing your pussy start taking off your shirts (the key to this is to to switch hands), then take your panties and bra off, then start rubbing your clit for a good 8-10mins , while one hand is still busy with your boobs (I can show you a pic of of a diagram so u can find your clit). Then stick your finger inside your pussy and point it upward and start rubbing there and play with your boobs (of course), do this for about 10-30mins or until you orgasm (wich is a sensation feeling you are building up this whole time) , the stronger the intensity is the stronger the orgasm will be. Make sure to be thinking dirty thoughts through out this process. Also make sure to give you a couple hours of alone time.
I can only get pleasure from clitoral stimulation. There are no fingers inside. I only rub my clitoris indirectly and I orgasm :)
rubbing and fingering should feel good not hurt. are you sure there is nothing wrong there?
Stay outside up at your clit. Use plenty (plenty) of lotion. First do flat hand circles outside your lips at whatever speed and pressure you need. When you are highly aroused, part your lips, lay two fingers flat on your exposed clit and rapidly stroke it crosswise with as much speed and pressure as it takes. The whole routine should only take a few minutes to orgasm if you are horny. No need for finger penetration at all.
Have you found your clitoris yet? www.the-clitoris.com/I_cannot_find_my_girlfriends_clitoris_can_you_help_me_find_it
I think you'll get more pleasure from rubbing your clitoris than trying to penetrate yourself.
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Hope at least one of these helps.
Have shorter nails, that way you won't cut yourself.
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Start with clit rub it til you are wet
Its your pussy. Shouldn't you know what would make it feel good? Try using lube when you rub your clit
use lubes n start with rubbing ur clit first rather than fingering.. then when u feel u can, proceed with fingering..
if u r feelibg horny and also not comfortable with masturbation.. then i suggest that u need a partener who can give u the pleasure of sex :D
and if u dont want that then try masturbation again u would get used to it with more practice :p
Rub your clit
Insert whole hand. Use plunging motion. Ta-da!
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