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How many of you have been with 2 guys at the same time?

I got really drunk on my birthday and ended up having sex with 2 guys at the same time. At one point during the night I sort of realized what I was doing and couldn't believe that I was letting these two strangers doing me like that. However, now I can't stop thinking about it and frankly I get really turned on thinking about it. I did things with these guys that I've never done with other guys before...anyways, just wondering if anyone else have done anything like this and if so how did it make you feel?
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Also, if you're a guy, what would you think about the girl who did something like that? Would you date her afterwards?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't know what difference it would make, to me. You are 25 years old...a maturing adult, and many women I know have vivid fantasy about sex with two men. I have been in bed with two women...and would NEVER change that and told my wife about it (when I was married) She had sex with 30 men before we got married...and as far as I was / am concerned, that has no impact on my ego...only more experience for me to share.

    I think you had an experience that many women would kill for, but for social correctness,would NEVER say so.

    Of course I would date someone who had sex with two men at once or TWO OTHER WOMEN, for that matter. Young lady...we pass this way but once, as a young man/ young woman and I would say that you will never have a moment of regret for this experience.

    If a man would reject you for that...you don't need a 'blue nose" SOB like that anyway.

    I would never have rejected my wife.(.I loved her with all my heart.).for her past sexual experiences,

    If the man LOVES you, and you love him, you are a package

    Don't look back for a second at that experience as a "mistake" ...For me persoally, that is not a 'mistake'...it was an experience.

    Our entire lives are 'experiences.

    P.S. I bet that you are beautiful, too.

    • I fantasize about it all the time - you're a lucky girl.

    • @Ignorant I've had mfm 3somes was awesome. I would definitely date a girl who has or would like more. I'm not gay or bi just open minded. I've had sex with 2 women as well.

    • @Ignorant I wish I could help you fulfill your fantasy

  • I personally would not date you. I like girls who are commited with one person and aren't casual hookups.

    I like girls who respect themselves and don't use their body as a toy to satisfy there own fantasies. That's just my personal opinion.

    If someone fancies the same stuff as you do, more power to both of you.

    • I like a girl with a sexual appetite. It would b a turn on

    • @Jamesk1888 The last sentence in my reply was dedicated to folks like you.

    • Wow! you definitely sound like you are one of those sexually repressed men who only do it in the missionary position. You know what? I bet You're one of those selfish men, who don't know how to please a real woman. The type of guy who doesn't take time to worship his lady's body before he finishes in two minutes. What a shame... society sucks! I would Love to have two lovers (not husbands) anytime. But people like you would make life miserable, I'm sure.

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  • I did it once years ago when I was much more adventurous. It had always been a fantasy, so I rented a hotel room with a couple of male friends and made an entire weekend of it. It was exciting and slutty at the same time. Very few people know about it and I never talk about it. My husband doesn't even know. It's really the kind of thing that ruins your reputation if it gets out. I really don't think most guys would seriously consider a woman who has been with two men, although most of them don't seem to have a problem sleeping with two women. Double standard? Anyway, I still think about it and sometimes masturbate to the memory of them taking turns on me. My advice would be to keep it your secret. It's great that you experimented and enjoyed it, but no one really needs to know about it

    • You lucky woman....Great to hear an answer like your. You sound like the long answer I gave her as "oliver" ......and I am sure you would not give up that experience for anything............Sad to say you did not marry a man that you could share it with...............Glad you can still masturbate thinking about it..........Bruce

    • Only an insecure jealous man would feel this way. It’s your experience and you shouldn’t feel ashamed and it’s unfortunate you feel you can’t discuss it.

  • i have done something like that before. similar to your story actually. and like you it started out with liquor. anways, it was the most sexual and exciting thing I have ever done. I still get turned on about the thought of it. it can make a woman feel really powerful, it did for me anyway. But like most pople said, guys would probably not consider dating anyone who has done that, which is pretty messed up because guys will jump at the chance to have a 3some with 2 girls! total double standard! that why you should just let it be your secret. there is no need to tell anyone. just stay safe and have fun.

    • You sound like a "woman's woman" Sad to say that women that have a great experience like that feel it must be a secret. Damn shame...........Good for you, and thanks for telling what you did.

  • never done it, never wanted to. most guys would not take a girl seriously after they did that to her or heard that she did that. a woman is entitled to a few secrets so let that be one of yours

    no offense but be careful with your alcohol intake. you got drunk and woke up to you having sex with 2 guys at once? technically that's rape but since you enjoyed it its not...just be careful so nothing worse happens while your drunk in the future

    • You go girl ! Not to many like you!

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  • I've never done this, although I have fantasized about it sometimes. For your second question, I really don't think that any guy who tag-teamed a girl the first time he met her would ever date her. He's going to see her as a slut. Even if he's really attracted to her he'd have a hard time being in a normal relationship with her and trusting her.

    • I have never viewed ANY WOMAN as a slut for her sexual behaviour. Men would / will do just about anything they can do and get away with ............A college friend of mine NEVER told his wife about a 'gang bang" he attended when we were College freshmen.........No guts. I give every woman the same latitude. Why not ?

    • Really? I find it hard to believe that you wouldn't at least look at her different than you would a girl who you'd first had sex with alone. How can that not color your opinion of her?

    • After thinking about my answer, and your response, re: looking at her differently, I suppose I would have to be in that position to really see how I would feel. I have had a relationship with a great woman that I lived with for 2-3 years and she had sex with other men during that time, not a threesome, but sex anyway. It didn't effect our relatikonship one way or the other, only my curiousity, about how much she enjoyed the sex with the other man. Actually got me hot !

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  • Yeah, I'd have to agree with the other comments... dating a girl who just met two guys and had sex with them is not going to be something I'd be likely to consider.

    I'm more concerned about that then if it was a threesome -- meaning, if you were in a relationship and the two of you included a friend after discussion, that'd be different.

  • This is something I have been into for several years and fortunately for me the guy that lives with me is open to this and easily provides the extra penis or two.

    I know it has been 3 months since you posted this, just wondering have you done it again?

    • You have a wonderful honest sexual appetite and attitude. I love it.

  • I would be a hypocrite if I didn't date a girl because she had a threesome. So, no, I wouldn't hold this against a girl and at the same time, why are you just going to go around saying that you had a threesome? If you were asked then be honest otherwise, this is not much of an important piece of info.

  • Its how when a waoman is tangled up with two guys. I want to be the third one:-)

  • hun you knew what you where doing don't play the drunk card

  • I think you’re fine. This is some men’s greatest fantasy, including me. Many guys dream of dating or even marrying a woman like that. I consider it very sexy and would never judge you. Appreciate that you’re open about it. Thank you for sharing.

  • I share my wife with other men and she loves having two men at the same time! The more we do it, the more she wants to do it! It is her favorite way to have sex and mine as well!

  • Hello, a little something that would help all of us to put out an opinion back to you.

    Did you have anal sex and vaginal sex at the same or did they take turns on you and kept to your vagina only?

    What do you say you were drunk? Did you lost control and let them in?

    If you could provide more of the background, maybe I'll be able to give you a pretty good guy's opinion on the matter at hand.

    I don't judge. So feel free to tell your story.

    Take care

  • Oh yes, I would adore this kind of woman. My feelings about women that are open with having 2 male sex partners is that they are in touch with being a sexually desired woman and are open and honest with expressing and loving all the sexual desires they have.

  • Date her. I would marry her. And let her bring guys home to me. Lol

  • I was with 2 guys in college and loved it, when I got married my husband wanted to know if there was anything sexual that i had done and liked it. i was afraid to tell hell to start with but said what the hell and told him, he hugged me and kissed me for telling him the truth, he said it would turn him on to watch me, to us behind closed doors its just sex, we have a health relationship in and out of the bedroom. So for you ladies or guys that want to have a little kink in your relationship talk to your partner before you go behind their back, it has been awesome for us.

  • How do I feel about a girl that does that? Absolutely fine with it. As a married man I would welcome my wife doing that.

  • I had an ex girlfriend that I dated for a few years. It was something that I've always wanted to do and she had an ex that had one in the past. Starting a couple months into our relationship, we brought him into having a 3some. We both know how to pleasure her well. We still occasionally get together and she loves how the both of us work together to make her feel good

  • I never have I think it would be fun for me and a friend to have sex with the same woman. I like the idea standing in front of her while another guy is having sex with her.

  • Disgusting. You'd think by that age you'd have learned some self control...

    • What a judgmental closed minded person you are

  • Personally... that'd be a deal breaker for me. If I found out a girl had done that, I would have to walk away. I might hate doing it, but being able to look at myself in the mirror is more important.

  • Men do and have done worse. I would say don't make doing that with randoms a habit. Then again you are grown and if that turns u on to them by all means. I would date a woman like you and even do it with you. You would be the focus in my case. Anyway I hope you believe in your heart that those who call u names are beneath you. Continue to explore and have fun.

  • i would think she is a slut and would not want to have anything with her. as for the mho, the guy was a manwhore and too what he deserved, a whor. it might be "added experience" for him, but for normal men it's just disgusting.

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  • I would not date you, no. I would think you don't see sex as an emotional/intimate interaction but something purely of pleasure and casualness. We wouldn't have the same preferences and priorities so I wouldn't see the point in going beyond friends.

    Beyond that, doesn't matter to me. Everybody should live their lives according to what they prefer. Their is no better or worse way to live, just different ways. That makes some people compatible and other incompatible for a relationship.

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