Why do girls wear revealing clothing then get mad when guys look

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A lot of girls will wear low cut shirts that show cleavage or low cut booty hugging jeans or short skirts and get mad if guys look at them.  Unless of course its a guy she likes then girls that dress like that will stick their chest out.  Its not that its impossible not to look its just very hard.  And just because we look doesn't mean we enjoy looking.  It can be irritating if  I am trying to do something serious and some girl in those kind of clothes is tempting me to look.  If you have ever been on a diet and craved eating something and somebody else eats it in front of you you know what that's like(Im not trying to say girls are food its just a metaphor for temptation lol) And yes I consider those clothes to be a non verbal look at me.  What else could they possibly be.  If I look and I am not the guy she wanted looking at her it sort of a slap in the face a ur ugly I am beatiful.  So girls why do you think some girls dress this way in public, obviously at home or in bed with a husband or lover or girlfriend if your a lesbian makes sense maybe at a nightclub or party it might make sense but is the point of doing this in public like school or work or the store to get guys to stare and squirm and get erections if it is why don't girls that dress like that just take it as a compliment and not get mad or think less of guys who look.  Even girls that don't dress like this tend to spend a lot more time then we do trying to look good and I would think they would appreciate the recognition.  If I catch a girl looking at me or she's really obvious and not trying to hide looking at me I take it as a compliment it makes my day, it doesn't happen a lot.

EmberlyMai · Accepted Answer

It's the game people play. Girls want you to want to look but not get to look. By wanting to look, you get more interested in her and you follow her more closely, trying catch peeks when we're not looking. People will want what they can't get or what's difficult. It's playing hard to get, in a different way.

Personally, even tho I know it's rather silly, I still feel that way. Unless we're lovers, then he/she can stare all they want because the game's over.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

maybe because you do more than look, you ogle in a creepy predatory way?

BigGuy8 · Accepted Answer

I think a lot of them are faking the outrage. But, I also think they may just want to show off their body without it needing to be "for" the oglers. They aren't inviting you to grab them. They are just showing you what you'll never have. Some guys simply take it as an unspoken invitation, and I'm sure you can understand why that would make them mad. They don't want you to think you can do what you want just because she's showing off skin.

cardioman6519 · Accepted Answer

I agree with you! I have seen hot women that come out of the locker room in the pool area all covered up and then go into the whirlpool all covered up and take steps into the whirlpool and slowly take off their towel like, please don't look at me and they have a 2 piece suit on with a hot body and we aren't suppose to stare or look?

camptravis · Answer

Girls like this are stupid. You should pay no attention when they get mad at you for just looking.  If a girl got mad at me for looking I would simply tell her not dress so provocatively. Dave Chappelle explains:

tzdc21 · Answer

Here's the way I see it. When a woman dresses provocatively, guys are gonna stare. If you are a woman and you don't want guys to stare, here's a tip, DON'T DRESS PROVOCATIVELY. Simple.

WildVyse · Answer

I think these two can explain how this works much better than I can:

amatuer_zombie · Answer

i think not just girls but everybody wants to look their best,if we manage to catch someone's attention tht we don't appreciate or like,we really don't give a damn!about tht person.

we aren't tryin to look good for them but only to the one's we like

soe11 · Answer

Every individual has a right to wear anything, whatever, however, whenever, any occasions and functions. No one can criticized or condemned.

lx5293 · Answer

Girls only get mad if you look for too long. The point of the tight clothes and low cut shirts is to make you look, but like I said just don't look for too long.

Anonymous · Answer

We don't get mad if you look you just don't need to stare. If you do then we get mad. We like you to glance and then look away after.

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