What exactly is fingering a girl?

Question

Ok I have never done anything other than make out and m boyfriend asked if he could finger me but I don't know what a girl has to do when they do this. Does the girl have to get naked? What does the guy do? I need details before I give in to something like this so please help

dakadan · Accepted Answer

Fingering is a form of sex that doesn't require the penetration of a penis into your vagina. It will be very similar to you masturbating with your own hand/finger except that it is someone else's finger. You should have control the whole time and let him know what is pleasurable and not. If you only want him to rub your clitoris, then tell him to only do that. If he asks to go inside (make sure you tell him to ask before doing anything) and you want him to then let him.

I would make sure his hands are clean, but for the most part have fun with it. Many women don't get nearly as upset through fingering (aka finger f***ing) as they might with penile/vaginal intercourse.

edward3455 · Accepted Answer

Lol. You making it more complicated than it is. Use this to your favor. In other words, he wants to finger you. He is the one who brought it up, not you. SO let me do it. Let him make the move. Put on the spot light. Just make out with him, and if he decides to finger you, then most likely his hands well be inside of you pants or skirt.

Just let him make the move. Just set back and enjoy it. If you don't comfortable doing it, then don't let him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well if your a virgin be sure that is him who you want to give it up (YOUR VIRGINITY) to cause fingering is when a guy puts his fingers inside your vagina and starts moving them in and out and usually that leads to sex and if its the first time it will hurt trust me and that pain will be cause your losing your Virginity you might bleed. Cause after they get something they always want more and more so think about this before you give in cause he might be more experienced than you and is eating your mined with sweet words and then might end up leaving you and think you were easy.