How to initiate handjob/blowjob?

Question

I've slept in the same bed as my boyfriend a few times now but we've only been making out. The last time he was really horny, I could feel his boner and he was moaning a lot. We were just grinding. How can I take things further? I know he won't say anything. Like how do you initiate a handjob/blowjob?

User729 · Accepted Answer

Listen. Unless he has a tiny penis and is afraid to show you it, there is no way you can mess this up.

The whole time you have been making out in his bed, all he has wanted you to do is touch his penis. Just feel when the timing is right, and put your hand in his boxers. From there the trasnition for hand job to blowjob is incredibly easy... you can either just go for it and start sucking; or, you can sensually kiss down his stomach and chest and then tease him with kisses and licking around his dick and up his shaft, then when he can't take it anymore, you take the whole head in your mouth. Likelihood is, if you chose the second option and he has never had a bj, he won't last long at all.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'd say reach down with your hand and grab it to play with , guys don't mind a girl grabs his cock , I know some girl gave me a handjob by just playing with the head of my cock and i loved it.

AngieDee · Accepted Answer

honestly, while making out if you notice he's hard then just slide your hand down and rub above the clothes. if he's okay with it you can undo his pants and go for it. believe me he will help you taking his manhood out, then just go for it. thats what i did my first time and i was fine! good luck youl do fine, just remember do it because you want to, not because you are presured

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

After you've been making out for a bit, with a bit of grinding and you notice he's hard, just pull back a bit, slip your hands under the waistband of his boxers and initiate a handjob/blowjob.

There's nothing to feel awkward about. There's a 99% chance he'll be pleasantly surprised, and will be more than happy to guide you if you're unsure of what to do at any point.

Ziconic · Answer

If you feel awkward about initiating it, I'd just say something like "So what's your opinion on blowjobs?" and kinda give him a winking nod. That should start things in the right direction. Good luck! :P

mikemx55 · Answer

When you are fooling around, start kissing him from the face, neck, chest... You get the idea. It shall be a smooth/not awkward move from you

AleDeEurope · Answer

Just slip your hands in his pants, you don't need to do anything more than that.

hihjjih · Answer

Just slowly start rubbing your hand towards his dick, and when it starts to get hard, pull it out and start stroking it... It he circumcised?

psychomonkey · Answer

You just reach for it

tyber1 · Answer

Just unbuttoning his pants when you've been making out will make your intentions clear.

T-shirtsandkneehighs · Answer

Next time you're making out just lay next to him stroking his chest and just slowly make your way down to his inner thigh and you'll get there eventually.. He'll love it

ConsultantIsBack · Answer

Make out, kiss neck, kiss abs if he has abs and then keep working your way down

Tarvold · Answer

Just reach for it.  But do it slowly and make sure your hands are warm.

johnmsk · Answer

Reach foe it whole making out. . erun over it and then unbuttoned and stroke the real thing

jjmarvin · Answer

Tell him to lay back and close his eyes, you want to try something. Then start by kissing, gradually move down and bring him out. Then you're ready to do whichever you want

murphchapter2 · Answer

Invite him into the shower with you

Superfreakpr · Answer

That's very easy, start by kissing and slowly start touching him, once he is hard you can either pull it out and start doing your magic or ask him to pull it out and then you can do whatever you want

orphan · Answer

The awkwardness is going to fester until you persevere by communicating with your hand grabbing his dick.

neoagent1 · Answer

Putting his cock in your hand would be the best start to either.

PromiseIllBeNice · Answer

Say, "Hoooooooo you Faka, lemmie suck yo dick! What bae like some action?" Then if he says his down for it- GameOn.

AshRosie · Answer

I would start by rubbing your hand in his inner thigh and seeing how he reacts to it. If he moves closer and shuffles your hand up, grope him on top of his pants to get him started :) if he still continues you react well to this, put your hand in and place it about his shaft, if his pants have buttons or a zip obviously undue that, and if he wants more space and less restriction he will pull his pangs down further :)