My only pleasure is dry humping?

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A virgin, never touched a girl sexually. I dry hump with clothes on because it's the only pleasure I can get and the rubbing with clothes stimulates me more, I always cum after. Im embarrassed because usually this is just for fore play before sex or young teens and I'm almost 30 and this is all I can get 😔

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Anonymous
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Dry humping a woman or what? A pillow? I seriously don't understand how you're still a virgin, unless you just stay in all day and/or shy away from women. Even if you're unattractive, ugly people have sex too.
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- mrsingle
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  Dry hump myself with my hand or against something. I go out and don't shy away it's called no woman finds me attractive or worth dating.
- Opinion Owner
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  I masturbate by humping pillows. Lol But you sound like you have low self-esteem. That could be your issue. You might be coming off as desperate. Girls can see that stuff right away. It's not a matter of attraction unless you have your sights set too high.
- mrsingle
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  Being rejected all your life does that to a person, and being denied sex creates desperation probably more so for men. It's not fair girks reject me because I'm desperate for sex it's a normal want. I don't know what else to say it feels like mind games to me everything I do is wrong in their eyes it's messed up.
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- Opinion Owner
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  I can't really help you hun. I don't know you so I can't see what you're doing wrong. Try talking to someone. Like a therapist. I have a therapist for my depression and anxiety. They can help with any issues you may have with yourself. Then you'll be confident, you'll feel better about yourself and women will see it and want you. If you feel hopeless it means you're giving up then nothing will change.

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SmoMan Explorer
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“dry humping” means with cloths on. Sounds like you are a little too sensitive to any sexual stimulation. go get a bottle of lube and watch some porn.
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- mrsingle
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  How am I too sensitive? Porn doesn't thrill me I want to touch a woman not look all I've done is look for years and years, looking is boring.
- SmoMan
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  That is also a good point, who are you dry humping? Are you like fat and ugly or something?
- mrsingle
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  I hump an object. I'm not fat I guess they think I'm ugly I'm really thin and I look young for my age.
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- SmoMan
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  That is not even dry humping… it’s just masturbating. Sounds like your biggest problem is actually your confidence. Just go up to some chick you don’t even know and ask her out. don’t worry about getting shut down because you don’t even know her… just don’t be a creep about it.
- mrsingle
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  Tried that, 3 girls in one year, all said no. I can go by looks with girls but if I don't know them they might not share a compatable personality or outlook and we would never click which would waste my time.
- SmoMan
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  It is not about clicking or even getting in their pants it is about having a connection with another person. 3 dates in a year is not very much when you are single.
- mrsingle
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  No, 0 dates, I asked they said all said no. I have NEVER been on a date ever. No kiss ever, no touching a woman sexually ever. Nada in my life women don't exist basically not by my choice
- SmoMan
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  sounds like you have already given up...
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https://cdn.meme.am/instances/59704802.jpg

Damn. Sorry to hear that.
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