Bi-curious.

[morganelizabeth09]

I am kind of bi-curious, and I would really love to try sexual things with another girl. I've never informed my boyfriend about me being bi-curious, because we have talked about having threesomes and he said he didn't want to have one because he doesn't want me to be with anyone else sexually, even a girl. He used to say that it would be hot to see me all over another girl, but he changed his mind. Does anyone have any advice on how I can tell him I want to try things with a girl?

[Anonymous]

Its always threatening to a relationship for any partner to be with another partner for any reason.

Some people though seek this kind of relationship, but this is usually because they have lead an somewhat unorthadox life style from a young age (e.g. not tended towards meaningful relationships). Though, some people I guess are possibly naturally inclined towards mutliple partners (can't rule it out).

You have to look at why your so fascinated by this bi-curiosity.. Why is it important to you, why don't you feel your present sexual relationship with your partner is enough?

Those are the questions to ask yourself.

If it is simply curiosity, then consider it this way, have you ever been curious to see what your liver looks like? would you have surgury to see?

So, depending on the fule behind your curiosity depends on the right solution. Most important, talk things out with your partner, talk together and come to an understanding of your motivations and his feelings. See how you feel then.

[morganelizabeth09]

That is very insightful. Thank you.

[Anonymous]

I don't know why you boyfriend has changed his mind because most guys would be thrilled at what he first was telling you. I think you just need to tell him you want to try out another girl like what he used to tell you was hot because now you find that hot too. You're just going to have t do that or else you'll always feel deprived because you have a right to experiment. You might love being bi for awhile with no harm being done to your boyfriend so you owe it to yourself to go for it. My went through that stage and she still likes to carry on sexually with another girl sometimes. It's not hurt our relationship one bit. In fact its made it more sexual satisfying and she enjoys me going down on here more now than she used to. Just do it because once you do you'll probably find out hell love you for it.

[morganelizabeth09]

That was very helpful :) I just asked him about it, and he actually told me to find another girl and let's do it :)

[Opinion Owner]

WOW that's great!! Sounds like you have a really nice bf. If you're like my girlfriend you're both really gong to like this.

[Opinion Owner]

I actually make a type in my answer. it should have read, "My girlfriend went through that stage and she still likes to...."

[Anonymous]

Sometimes a girl has to do what a girl has to do. This is one of those situations. Why should your boyfriend mind as long as you don't do anything to belittle him. Just put him first no matter what. Meantime, do some experimenting on your own and don't be shy. I think your boyfriend will end up loving you for this. Just make sure he's never included with the other girl unless you want it. Remember, another girl is for you, not him unless you totally approve. Is all this will do is improve your own sexuality, and indirectly improve his.

[curiousgurrl]

This sounds 100% how I feel. I'm what to do to full fill this

[l-hedoniste]

Understand something: he's won't like it. Not that it's a bad idea, but you know how he feels.

You can ask him to do it. It's the nice thing, but he'll likely say no, and then you get nothing.

You can tell him it's going to happen. Most likely, he grumps around for a while, then adjusts. Raise the offer for him to watch again, and he adjusts faster. Make sure your new girl's cool with that.

You could just do it, and tell him you couldn't help yourself. This sort of thing works once, but you can't make a habit of it, or he'll conclude (correctly) that you don't want to help yourself.

[BigB91]

tell him his johnson doesn't please your murphy anymore and you need a stand in weiner that's shaped like a cooter.