Start out gently like you said, "slide my hand up and down", and then you can gradually get more aggressive as you notice that he's liking it. By being more aggressive I mean again like you said, "grasp it" so you can feel it and then make sure you fingers are grasping the whole thing and then start squeezing it until he gets hard. That's a good way to tease him, and from start to his getting hard shouldn't be any longer than 5 minutes, more or less. He should be ready for that BJ you're so amazing at by then. lol!
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well if he is long enough...or if its positioned right...have it angled going down one pants leg...just rubbing ur hands or feet over that region or even lapdancing it would work...but once there hard...and you can see or feel the **** under the pants rub away...thats how a girl could easily get me hard with my pants on
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!A simple sensual grab will do. If were wearing pants, be a little more sensitive. It hurts to have a erection while having zipped up pants on. So a simple soft tease should suffice.
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