How do you tell your partner you have chlamydia?

how would you tell your partner (boy) you got chlamydia from them? and how would you react?
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let me say that I'm very calm person and I'm a lover not a fighter, consider me pathetic
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  • First of all, I'd be p*ssed that he was sleeping with other people.

    Second, I'd be p*ssed at him and myself for not using a condom.

    Then, I'd be glad it is something curable...cuz there's other things that are worse, like syphillis and herpes that can affect the reproductive system...

    How to tell him?

    Straight up.

    If you guys are having sex, which is the physically closest thing you can do with someone, you should be able to say..."hey, WE have a problem. I had a doctor appointment and confirmed that I have chlamydia, and your the only one I've been with. I contracted it from you.

    This is really uncool...and now, you need to tell whoever else you are having sex with, that they should get tested and get some meds, or they will be giving it to others.

    Oh, and you should get some condoms...cuz even if you take meds to clear the chlamydia up...your Boyfriend still has it, even if it's dormant and he can give it to you again...

    I'm not a prude...believe me, I love sex like most people, but the bareback version (no condom) isn't worth getting diseases which may have long term consequences...some of those STDs are really nasty. Google: herpes, syphillis, gonorrhea. All will do major damage. Herpes will be with you FOREVER...

    Good luck to ya.

    • If only people would take good advice like this one, and there won't be so many sti floating about.

    • Thanks for your comment! but our relationship is tricky though.. I'm not afraid to tell him but I'm wondering if he would get p*ssed, I mean would you get angry with the person telling you that you contracted it from him? I got him treatment for it would that ease him up ya think? I know you're not him but I'm trying to get a general outlook

    • YOU contracted a sexually transmitted disease from a guy who is sleeping with other "infected" women...and you are wondering if HE would get angry at YOU? You should be angry with HIM. You seem to be afraid that he will be mad/break up with you if you accuse him. HE GAVE YOU A DISEASE AS A RESULT OF CHEATING. If he punched you, and broke your jaw, would you blame yourself for that? Please look at how insecure you are in this relationship, and what it's doing to you. You're better than this.

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  • okkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk so what other STIs did you get tested for hopefully the full panel because if you aren't "officially together" and he is seeing other girls just think of the nasty possibilities how could you seriously not use a condom if you aren't ina serious relationship?

    And how are you not COMPLETELY Pissed about the whole situation?

  • how could he get mad he gave you it...how are you so calm about it ? I'd tell him and then leave him if I was you

Most Helpful Guy

  • You got chlamydia from your boyfriend and you're worried about how he'll react? Am I missing something? WTF, why aren't you p*ssed?

    I go to great measures to protect my partners; so, I'm just going to say it's pretty much a given that I would not give my partner a STD. Now, if I found out she gave me an STD, before I told my ex-girlfriend anything, I'd first report her to the public health authority; so, she would have to give names of all the people she may have infected. After that was finished, I'd tell her thanks for the clap you filthy tramp; I just hope the STDs end with the antibiotics. I'd also let her know in not so kind words that she would never have another chance to give me a STD, and that we could not continue being friends.

    • Well what if he didn't know he had it?

    • If he didn't know he had it, how will he know you didn't give it to him. I'm just trying to give you some justification for why I wouldn't be p*ssed off.

    • He's the only person I've had unprotected sex with. so if you were told "you're the only person I've had unproteced sex with and I came out postive for chlamydia" how would you react?

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