Is she lying about me being the best she's had?

[Anonymous]

Ok, the sex was and has always been great for both of us. She says that I am the only man to ever make her cum. Yet she was f*** buddies with a guy for almost a year with a huge dick "about 9 inches". She never tells me that I am the only one, until after she takes me to meet this guy. Being a dumbass I agree and find out all the details. She never told me that I was the only one till after we argue about it. She says that I am the smallest, but also the best. What good is a f*** buddy if he doesn't satisfy you? Isn't that kinda the point? So is she lying to make me feel better, which isn't working. Or is there possibly any truth in this? I only care so much about her past because she talked so much about him. Enough to take her fiance "me" to meet her old f*** buddy/best friend. She has apologized a billion times, and I know she feels horrible about the whole thing. But I can't seem to get over it. And one more thing. She never said "I'm cuming! " during sex till after this whole thing. I need help. Seriously.

[ilovelegs]

I think she's lying too because her stories change and she's only told you some things after arguing with her and now she apologizing. Doesn't add it. She's no doubt sorry she ever brought the whole ex thing up but maybe she just wanted you to know about it. I'd say if she screwed this guy for a year she'd definitely cum and had a great time with him in bed every time or she'd never stayed with him that long. She needs to completely stop bringing his name up and just concentrate on you and what you guys are doing and how you're satisfying her. If you guys are hitting it off as good as you say you are now, then just leave it at that and move on from here and continue trying to satisfying her. She seems to really like you and since she's with you instead of him should tell you something. She's probably over him and like jaycee777 said, she probably likes the competition and maybe now you'll even try harder to please her. Good luck! She could be a great girl for you..

[dohcrwd]

she should have some respect to you. and why would she tell you about the fuck buddy anyways.

i think she is lying

and that is my final answer

[babygirl6744]

My best friend and I talk about sex all the time and we eventually became f*** buddies. We both are in separate relationships. For her to tell you that her best friend who happens to be a guy was her f*** buddy means she's confidante and has respect to tell you the truth about him. Just because they were f*** buddies doesn't mean that he was the best ever. People have sex buddies because they are going through a dry time and need that sex to get by a long week of work and just to relieve some stress. Because as we all know having sex is better then getting off on your own. And honestly size doesn't really matter if you know how to work it and she is in love with you its always gonna be amazing sex because its all you ever wanted the guy you love being one with you

[Asker]

See the thing is, she only f***ed him in the first place because he had a big dick. And only stayed "buddies" with him because of it. She says that size only mattered before they had sex then it didn't matter anymore. So it just been really confusing hearing all these different things, but she has tried soo hard to make me feel better and that's kinda why it feels like she is lying. I know the sex is great because she can barely walk after we make love. Just kinda makes ya wander, that's all.

[babygirl6744]

Honestly I wouldn't be worried

[jaycee777]

The best sex I ever had was with a guy that was the smallest I had been with. You should know if she cums because you will feel pulsating inside her when she does.

As for this other guy. It is strange that she still goes on about him. Were they friends before they screwed? If so she may just want to keep the friendship, but it is not healthy for you that she talks about him all the time. Makes you wonder if she still has feelings, or wants the competition

[Asker]

She says that they knew each other but weren't really friends. Then she found out that he had a big dick and then she f***ed him for that reason only. That's how they became f*** buddies. She doesn't talk about him anymore, in fact she wrote him a letter telling him off because the only reason I knew about the whole size thing was because the one time I met him, he asked her if she remembered "the incredible hulk", a pet name for his dick. She went pale at the question and that's when this started

[Jessica32]

Don't worry, man. My best was also the smallest. She's probably not just trying to make you feel better. :) I think it might have something to do with getting the g spot better. Since the strokes are shorter, the head of t he penis spends more time on the g spot. Get what I mean? That's all I can think of. Besides skill level ;) haha

[Asker]

Yea, she says that the other guys only hit one spot, if that. And that no matter what position I'm always hitting at least 2. And that I have found spots she didn't even know she had. She says that the sex was good with them, but sex with me is amazing. And I was friends with a bi-sexual girl for a while and she taught me a lot about oral and finger play. She didn't like doggy style before me, now she loves it, she didn't like oral before me, now she can't get enough.

[Jessica32]

See, there ya go! Don't worry about it. Who is she with right now? YOU. Not him. They are obv still friends so she COULD go back to him. But nope. She's stickin with you. And it seems like this might be causing some tension in your relationship. Don't let that happen. Don't let silly shit like being insecure ruin it! :)