Long Labia minora?

I have always been insecure about my labia minora. It hangs down quite a lot about an inch and its wrinkly. When I lay down they kind of open up like wings and I've always been worried about having a guy go down there.. Guys do you actually care about this? I Am just worried a guy will be grossed out or something. What if a guy comments about them? I would be so embarrassed. And from the comments I heard, most have been from women! A few friends of mine had a conversation the other day and the brought up how disgusting long labia is and how it means your "loose"? Why are some women so uneducated about labias!
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  • How much I care about women such as yourself who worry about something so intimate yet so beautiful.
    https://greatwallofvagina.co.uk/home
    Above is a beautiful piece of art that is made specifically to help women just like you.
    400 normal woman who gave their time and permission to have a mold done of their vulvas. please take a look at it because not only is it beautiful but so educational.
    I feel sure it will help you tremendously. You are normal.
    Guys desire and lust after pussy yes we all have small preferences but the current vogue for ( "innies " which I hate the description ) is porn driven. Very few real women are that featureless. It is almost to young looking.
    It's my belief and personal preference that most guys enjoy larger vulvas and labia. They blossom like petals on a flower. Open as the woman becomes aroused. Very erotic and arousing. When stimulating a woman there's more to feel , finger and kiss.
    It's also a very true statement " beauty is in the eye of the beholder" how many hetero women find their own vulvas beautiful not many iam guessing. Many hetero guys can spend hours just looking and desiring them. To be given , allowed and privileged to feel , see, smell and taste it is just exquisite.
    Yes I care but I care more about the woman who is so concerned about her body, has doubts and lacking in confidence. Most of all though how it will diminish their enjoyment of what should be a wonderful intimate time. It can have such an effect that some women are held back for life or even consider labiaplasty.

  • What you describe is great and exactly what many men want! I suggest you go up to the black bar across the top and click on the magnifying glass and search for long labia. You will see that guys love them. If I was seeing yours I would comment, but it would be to tell you how much I like them, just as many other guys would, You have nothing to worry about.

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  • im not a guy.. so my opinion probarly won't matter, but personally i find "outies" way more physically appealing than "inies"..

    Anyway, from what i have hear, from women irl, and on here, when guys have reached a certain point (aka your panites are off and its time for action) guys go in to "beast mode" and the looks of your vulva, or your stomach fat, or stretch marks (not saying you have it, just making a point) isn't even on his mind at all. They are just happy they are getting the V in the first place. I wouldt worry about it at all.. and for the uneduacted women.. the only thing you can do is ignor them or/and educate them about it.. its not your fault that they are ignorant

  • haha it doesn't mean yuor loose XD Your labia isn't your vagina opening rofl.
    Yeah some woman are very uneducated about vaginas , like some men are. One of my inner lips stick out a little bit but not a lot, but it never bothered me. I like my vagina XD And I am tight down there. Except when I get super aroused during sex but that normal.

    The one who loves you, will love you, and make you feel comfortable with yourself no matter what.
    If the one your with doesn't make you feel like that, its not worth it and its not love.

  • Mine is really small... but I have seen live nude models for figure drawing class with longer ones. I don't think guys would be weird out by that. If they are, they seem immature and probably watch too much of a type of porn where the girls are small. I'm not attracted to women, but I don't think it's disgusting at all.

  • unless you want to get surgery for it, its not something you should worry about. guys won't turn down pussy just bc they dont like how it looks unless all they want is sex and don't care about you. so as long as you have sex with people who care about you, you have nothing to worry about.

  • One lip is really short and the other is long. I also have a freckle on one. My boyfriend has never cared and I doubt any guy will

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  • I like them just fine, and so do most guys. The majority of women (around 2/3) have "outie" vulvas, so you are the norm, and nothing to be embarrassed about.

    Obviously, your labia has nothing to do with the tightness (or lack thereof) of your vagina. Really, this is just another way to generate false insecurities, something that sadly, women are especially known for - tearing down others in an effort to feel better about themselves. Don't fall for that crap and don't let it affect you.

  • If someone wouldn't want to be with you because how you look they are usless. To be honest protruding long labia are a major turn on for me. Don't be ashamed of your vagina. They have nothing to do with being loose just a myth. My ex wife had long labia and was very tight even after having an 8 pound baby.

  • I think it's hot personally. If a guy comments in a bad way about it tell him to fuck off and don't give him any. Sounds like you have a gorgeous pussy to me

  • Guys mostly only care up to the point that they've got privilege to tinker with a female genital organ

  • I'd doesn't mean you're loose. That's stupid. We love them all. We couldn't care less how prominent or not they are. This is absolutely 100% something to not worry about

  • Lol, the person you spoke with who inferred that having large labia means that a woman is loose is clearly ignorant and immature. Sexual promiscuity has nothing to do with labia sides. Finally large labia are beautiful! I would do almost anything to find myself in a relationship with a woman who has labia as large as yours. Finding a woman with your is like finding a diamond in the rough. You are a treasure to be held! Live it, know it, and believe it!

  • As a guybi can tell you that it doesn't ever cross my mind and wouldn't effect me at all. If a guy ever were to say anything, tell him that his tongue could be put to better use than talking :)

  • Sounds like the perfect vagina to me.

  • I have gone down on many women, all who have vaginas that are uniquely theirs. Never seen one i did not adore

  • I don't know what that is but I'm guessing it has to do with a vagaina.. we honestly don't care what your minor labalala looks like we just want to poke it..

  • No need to be insecure at all, most men love larger labia minora while some men just don't care large or smaller, be body confident yours sound wonderful, and obviously large labia has nothing to do with anything more then genetics, some men have larger penisis and some men are smaller.
    Hope this helped :)

  • Tbh I don't think guys would care to much about it, at the end of the day a pussy is a pussy and they come in all different shapes and sizes

  • I don't like how most vaginas look, but I actually like that type.

  • Nah i just ate out a girl with uneven labia last week, it's chill