How do I know he's enjoying the bj I'm giving him?

I give my boyfriend bjs frequently but he never says if he likes it, most of the time it's one moan, he finishes and he leaves, so I'm curious as to whether or not this is norm.
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I'm not quite 18 yet but I'm like you. Whenever we make out that most always includes me giving him a bj, but he doesn't just leave and not say thing. He'll usually tell me how good it felt and how good I was. He owes you at least that, so I'd say that's not very normal for a boyfriend to just never say anything and then leave. If my boyfriend did that I'd quickly stop giving him head. Even though I enjoy giving him a bj I like feeling appreciated by him when I try to really do it really good, always swallow and always make him come kinda fast. .Just stop doing it and then when he asks, tell him you like to hear him talk to you after he finishes and tell you if he enjoyed it. Tell him you don't like him taking that for granted.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Tell him to be more vocal about it when you do it. tell him it turns you on and makes you want to do it better and more often. My girl told me that's what she likes to hear so I do it.

  • Not all guys react the same way, but this does sound normal.

    • Well, we can nix this question, looks like jon123 was right, he jst txt me and said he wants to end things bcuz he found another chick

    • Wow. Okay. He is an A$$H0L#. I was hoping that he was actually a good/nice guy. Best wishes to you. I'm sure you deserve better anyway!

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  • its normal because girls love for a girl to give him head he just don't say nothing because we get our nut and leave just like a girl does

    • Usually after we have sex we'll cuddle for at least half an hour and then sometimes we have more sex, but when we makeout then I give him a bj, he jst leaves...normally he stays and we'll shower together so I don't know why he jst leaves

    • Maybe he just using you for the p**** and the d*** sucking you may have to leave him or make him eat you out and you just get up and leave

    • That does sound like a possibility

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