Penis too big for girl friend? Not sure what to do.. to get mine?

[Anonymous]

so yea i'm just really venting the situation and would like some feed back from guys who have this problem, and from the girls perspective. we are both 21 So my girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and everything started great, she told me from the start that i was bigger than what she is used too, but im a very gentle lover naturally. im not rough unless she asks, which she likes but i feel she hasn't been asking for it rough just because im already hurting her. I can hit her cervix no problem which i know causes pain, so im extra careful about depth. I personally don't think i'm that big i'm just 7 inches and a half long and six inches in circumference. My girlfriend is NOT tiny, which would make more since. she's 5'7" 130lbs so an average girl. sex usuall goes as fallows, she's on top for 5-10 mins, cums. then tells me to get on top to finish, at this point she's not into it and i can by the faces that she makes she's in pain, what sucks for me is big time is, my biggest turn off is seeing a girl not into it. once I sense that she's over it i lose my mojo and motivation very fast. so i basically have 1 min after she cums on top to get on top and cum as fast as i can (keep in mind i have been hold it back for 10-15mins while she's on top. what usually happens is i get on top and try to hurry and not hurt her too much but her pain faces and noises she makes, she tells me to hurry while she powers through. a lo of times i know im going to take awhile and just give up because it will cause too much pain for her. tried to trick my self by saying they are mini work outs and i shouldn't take it too personal and if i was in pain i would hope she would understand. we have tried many different lubes she's very picky and doesn't like or want to use it every time we have sex. i have tired spreading her vagina lips open more with my fingers while im in her, she says it helps but I don't know. guys, have you had problems like this? Girls, do most of you loose interest after you cum. im tired of the awkwardness after i dont cum. im honestly scared of being with other girls exspecialy smaller ones. i dont want to hurt anyone or make it seem like a challenge to just have sex with me.

[Thor696]

"my biggest turn off is seeing a girl not into it. once I sense that she's over it i lose my mojo and motivation very fast"

^^ I feel you - I'm the same way. Instant mood killer.

Can you train yourself to cum at the same time she does? It seems the best option.

Why on Earth is she able to withstand this UNTIL SHE CUMS but not until you do? Is she taking it really slow when she's on top?

In your case - I would say it's totally legit for you fantasize about anything you want in order to finish up quick. Think about other girls... sometimes I think of a line of girls waiting outside the bedroom that are waiting their turn. Whatever it takes bro.

Eventually I think you guys will learn the ropes and this won't be a problem,

[bubbakong2006]

Pull out and blow your load on her tits after she cums she might like that you will

[Anonymous]

Every girl is built differently, sometimes height doesn't have to do with anything. I'm 5'7" and small as well. I do kind of lose interest after I'm done, but I always make sure to finish my partner off as well, in one way or another, because I'm not selfish. The only thing I can suggest is either you finishing first and making her finish with oral, or vice versa.