Most women aren't that good at giving hand-jobs, and it's really awkward and difficult to give them tips. Most manipulate the penis too far down the shaft, and hold it in their fist, rather than using their fingers. Use your finger (and thumb) ends on the foreskin, close to the tip. In fact, their hand can never even get into the ideal position to give one (nature put the man's hand there!). Make sure you lubricate the motion, and believe it or not, saliva is the best thing to use. You can't really give one with one hand as you need one hand to "anchor" the penis in position at its base, and the other to manipulate his foreskin. I like it as fast as possible, but if you yank down too far, that's when it would hurt. If your man has no foreskin, I can't really advise you...but make sure it's lubricated at the tip, and keep most of your hand movement there. Good luck!
These handjob questions are a dime a dozen. lol
Let me ask you a question. Have you ever met a guy that can play with your kitten better than you can? I'll assume the answer is no and tell you that well the same thing is true for a handjob. We have been giving them to ourselves for a long long time and it will never be as good as our own.
But more related to your question, each guy is different and it's all based on how he masturbates. I suggest you ask him to masturbate while you watch and pick up a few pointers along the way. Mirror what he does and you should be good to go.
well I had the same problem. I just start at the shaft and maybe try useing lotion (alot) lotion helps the penis stay wet and moisture. and I had boys tell me it hurts when the penis is dry and your giveing them a hand job so that why I startes using lotion. then you just start at the shaft of the penis and just go up and down really slow and as they start geting into it and really likeing it. get alil fast and just tell him to let you know if its hurts. and as your giving a hand job with the other hand play with his ball but REALLY EASY N SLOW!
stip a goood amount of saliva in ur hand first, basically don´t go deep down, try not to mess everything with his hair, (hard) , and start slow always, and a bit faste and faster, they will tell you if they want more
you have to find out what they like. Try switching it up and playing with his balls as well. Watch as he jerks himself off so you can get an idea of how this guy likes it ;) Hope it helped!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Oh I love that question. There are several suggestions.
1. Ask him to show you so you can practice on him. The idea of you asking to teach him makes for a very hot scenario.
2. Me, I love handjobs, especially if she decided to be dominate when she does it. For example, I once had a girlfriend who (when she decided she wanted to be dominate, that night) would order me to lay down, on my back, legs spread wide while she gave me a handjob, but there were rules I had to follow. 1. I was not allowed to move or make a sound until I began squirting cum. If I broke ANY of those two rules I would receive a punishment. The punishment would be one of two things. 1. I had to spend the next three nights performing oral sex on her as many times as she wanted and I wasn't allowed to have an orgasm, or 2: I had to eat my cum.
She would then proceed by running her fingertips (with a very light touch) all over and around my balls. As she did that, she would then run one of her fingertips slowly up my shaft, going very slow, with a very light touch. Once she reached the head, she would spend some time very lightly running her fingertip all over and around the tip. Then, she would stroke my cock with a very light touch, stroking me slowly. Sometimes stroking my entire shaft, sometimes just the tip.
All this would just drive me crazy! I wanted to tell her to stroke me harder and faster, but I knew what would happen if I said a word or moved an inch. I had to just lie there and take her torture. What made it worse was when I was about to cum. As my cock would begin to pulsate and throb, she would often times stop for a few seconds and then continue, sometimes she would continue to stroke me with that light touch knowing I was about to cum. The whole time I kept thinking to myself, "Well, performing oral sex on her for three nights in a row, any time she wanted, as often as she wanted wouldn't be so bad! But, then again, it means I wouldn't be allowed to have an orgasm on those nights." If (before starting to give me a handjob) she insisted that if I broke any of those two rules, I would be punished by having to eat my cum, then I would find myself thinking, "Fuck! I don't want to eat my cum! I'm not sure if I can keep still. Fuck!!!". What made that option even naughtier is, as I neared my orgasm, she would make comments like, "Mmmmm you're thinking about it, aren't ya? You're thinking about how hot it's going to be to eat your cum, aren't ya? I know, I can tell. You're cock is rock hard, and you're about to cum. Why else would you cock be rock hard and ready to cum if you weren't thinking about how hot it's going to be to eat your cum, while I watch!!!"
When I finally came, it was always SO intense!!! Lying still, not making a sound as she slowly brought me over the edge always made my orgasm so intense! Sometimes I couldn't keep still. I would then either spend the next three nights performing oral sex on her anytime she wanted, as often as she wanted, and I wasn't allowed to fuck her or have an orgasm, or I had to eat my cum, ALL of it.
I must admit, having to perform oral sex on her for three nights in a row was really hot! It meant the sex was all about her, and I could tell she REALLY enjoyed it. I can't begin to tell you how many times I almost had an orgasm while licking her as she was experiencing an orgasm. I loved how she would suddenly and unexpectedly tell me to stop what I was doing and lick her, right now!
Anyway, I hope my suggestions help. I would love to hear what you do now. If you're interested in telling me, or asking me any questions, feel free to write me at nothingtosee@yahoo. com
No such thing as a good handjob. Skip it. Stick with grinding or blowjob.
One word Lube.
well every guy is different. When your gonna give a new guy a hand job start from where you have before, soft and slow. Let him tell you what he likes and go from there. When you do what he tells you to that's when your giving a GOOD hj.
Check out this website for all you need to know - www.handjobadvice.com
Check out handjobadvice.com link for some great tutorials. Just ask him about speed and intensity.
slow and softly
ok so every guy is a little differnt
But he need to guide you a little bit too just like if her is pleasuring you and not doing it best for you
first of all get some lotion it will help ... "you don't want to give him a friction burn "
then basicly have him show you by doing it first then guiding you hand ...
First get your hands very wet pu ssy juice would be best spit otherwise. Second rub the balls too. Also make sure that his hairs are trimmed too.
Go up and down squeezing harder and harder until the man juice comes out.
Some guys enjoy teasing and edging. It may sound kinky but delaying orgasm may lead to greater pleasure. Hold his penis firmly in other hand and bend it slightly away from his torso. Keep the foreskin down and penis still. Now you can stroke the tip and frenulum area lightly with other hand fingers. Sometimes very slight touches with small breaks can make penis more sensitive and him desire for more touch. Add lubricant at some point and continue with various slow finger and palm movements. (If it doesn't do the trick for example in five to twenty minutes you can temporarily speed up. Note that rougher massage can reduce sensitivity.) When he is close to orgasm slow down and reduce touch so he doesn't cum (precum may appear although). After while, try to bring him close to cumming again. To tease him, repeat process couple of times and your guy is begging for release! He might get so close to cumming that even slightest touch with one finger could send him over the edge. When he eventually starts ejaculating remember to add more touch, pressure and speed to give him best orgasm possible.
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