My boyfriend can only stay hard in the doggy style position. Problem is I can only orgasm being on top! Help!

[Anonymous]

I have NEVER seen or heard of anything like this before! I am 27 and he is 39. I researched topics of erectile dysfunctions and haven't seen this specific case! He's hard as a rock in the doggy style position and can even stay hard if he's on top (not for long; nevertheless capable of it) or if he's on his knees and I'm on my back with my legs spread open he's good there too. But, the position he can stay hard in the longest is doggy style. It's unfortunate for me because my FAVORITE position is riding! I love being on top and that seems to be one of the ONLY positions I can orgasm in! We can be in the middle of wild sex and he can be soooo hard in doggy style position and the moment I turn around and slide on his penis it softens up! Immediately! Then he feels so bad and starts getting p*ssed off at himself. At first I thought he didn't like my body or something which didn't make sense because he gets hard just looking at me AND, he's ALWAYS touching all over me and telling me how beautiful I am. I asked him has this ever happened before and he said his ex's for like the past 5 years loved doggy style and that was the only position they ever really did... Boring, but then I figured I have to just accept that I won't be fully pleased by him unless we use a dildo (which has worked in the past and was awesome btw) but although he was happy I was pleased I can tell he felt bad that he can't please me in that way. Lastly, I think it's even worse now (psychological) because in some of our conversations in the beginning when he told me his Ex's loved doggy style I told him my Ex loved when I would ride him and we both would get the biggest orgasms! I don't think it was wise to share that because now he makes comments like I'm sorry you were pleased sexually before getting with me and I'm sorry you don't get good orgasms anymore etc. I tell him that he's great and that I enjoy sex with him (which I do) but it doesn't seem like he believes it. As a result our sexual chemistry has really decreased and we went from having sex everyday or every other day to only once every 7-10 days. And, I usually initiate even then! Our relationship is fairly new we've only been together for 6 months and we've pretty much been living together the whole time. And, we're having financial struggles and he feels bad about not being able to provide as much as he would like to so I know he's been pretty stressed lately! OK so here are basically all the facts... Please someone let me know if you've ever heard about a man only being able to be erect in one or two positions! I need your help! Can't find anything online about it and kind of embarrassed to ask anyone I know! Thanks for reading!

[hans1416]

I feel very uncomfortable doing it missionary style, for instance. I can do anything else, but something puts me off about missionary. So I can understand that some guys find certain positions unappealing. Now, it is extreme to only do one, but hey, that's something, too. Does it not help if you or he stimulates your vagina additionally to help you orgasm doggy style?

[LenaLu]

Most guys like it, too. If this is long-term, babydoll, what do you think he's going to be like in 10 years. I see a lot of movies, beers, and potato chip nights in your future. BTDT! Girls with a lot of sex drive deserve a mate who can meet them half-way...and appreciate good fortune! Sex is an excellent destresser, too!

All the Best!

Lena

[Bbi55]

I sometimes suffer from erectile dysfunction (when she's on top). Sometimes I get an erection and then it goes away. It is embarrassing. Tried C*alis from * NIZAG4ED * 👍 (please search on Google, I don’t remember the link) and I liked the results. Harder and longer erections, more time to please your partner. It works! It can also jump-start your sex-life. I prefer it over Lev*tra and V*agra. I tried everything. C*alis makes you rock hard 😀.

[ladybug301]

No offense but if he can only be hard in doggy style, not if you're on top, he sounds like an asshole.

[Tanyasuperior]

Sounds like you need to either work on it or move on

[l-hedoniste]

Monday, Wednesday, Friday: You on top.

Tuesday, Thurday, Saturday: Doggy style.

Toss a coin on Sundays.

Good luck!

[Richierich8787]

Whattttt ? A hot girl riding me for a creampie is my favourite :-)

[Caliguy88]

See a dr. I think they can help. Probably a little embarrassed but they see it all the time.

[HotCaleb]

time to change a boyfriend :)))) or make him satisfy you first by eating your pussy and then let him blow his load all over your ass

[Fite4you]

i love both

[Abim8888]

I don't read the entire article, but this is my case too, i think because my cock is too shy lol

[Anonymous]

Ever try enjoying doggy while he reaches around and plays with your clit or uses a vibrator on it? You should both be able to win? But I hear you about cowgirl. It’s my favorite and I love her riding me!

[Anonymous]

I see he needs fast movement to stay hard because of all the jacking and porn he went through. Move faster and he will stay hard, and do some other things, caress his sensitive areas and let him suck your breasts. Try hitting him on his face too it may help.

[Anonymous]

He probably loses the blood flow (which is key to being firm) when you get on top of him - which is normal. I would recommend a penis ring so it prevents him from getting soft when its your turn.

More info: link (TIP No 4)

Hope this helps.

[Asker]

Thanks I'll try it and see if it helps! :)

[Anonymous]

I guess meeting half way would be the key. Its usually the case for all relationships. You go gal!