Can you tell if a girl will be a size queen?

[Anonymous]

OK, I admit I have a small one, I measured it erect and its usually like around 4.5 inches, sometimes more or less depending on all kinds of stuff (if I'm tired before bed or whatever) Anyway, I know that for girls that size matter a lot for, I probably won't make the cut. But is there anyway to tell? I mean telling some1 you have a small penis is something to do way into the relationship 4 me anyway. But also I'm overweight and I've heard/read,from Dr. oz on Oprah 2, that loosing weight "gains" you penis length.(it doesn't actually get larger, its just that a lot of fat masses around your penis and if you loose weight, your erection protrudes father from your body, thus allowing more of it to go inside your partner). Also I'm guessing that if I get healthier it will probably up my sexual ability big time, maybe even get larger erections too. Dr. oz says that basically 35 lbs=roughly 1 more inch exposed. I could stand to loose about 70 honestly. and I'm guessing if I could get about 6 inch id be in a good shape. But in general are larger girls (like taller etc) harder to please while smaller girls are easier or is there no relation? O and has any girls had a boyfriend loose weight and then get better in bed and be able to get more inside you? I suffer so much anxiety about it, I don't even care much about sex I just want a relationship bad but I fear if it goes to the next level any girl will be disappointed with me, Not to mention working out the mechanics seems like such a difficult task. ugh...y can't girls get off as easy as guys!

[Bvroon]

To be sure I'm not a girl, but I can relate to your concerns, as I have often wondered the same thing about girls and their preferences for "size". The one thing I can tell you is to take one step at a time. Your concerns about your weight seem well placed and perhaps you should focus on that for now. I'm not suggesting that you couldn't be in a relationship now, just that if you try focusing on all the things you are concerned about it can be rather overwhelming to say the least. As for the size issue, while loosing some weight will help. It seems to me if you find a girl who really wants to be with you this will be less of a major issue than you fear (no pun intended) I have never considered myself to be all that larger either, but it seems to me it is more important how you make her feel, how you touch her and if you are attentive to her needs that is more important than having a huge penis. I have always been very attentive and the women I have been with have always seemed to be happy with what I have to offer. I hope this helps you some, and that you are successful in your efforts to meet your goals.

[Asker]

Yea dude I agree I'm more focused on my wieght loss but t eh problem is that I worry like "wuts the point of dropping weight if I would never be able to satisy a girl anyway? I'm not even interested in sex really, I wana reserve that for marriage or a really good committed relationship, I mostly just want the emtoional aspects for now. but its just that I'm afraid everything that leads up to it will mean nothing if I'm not satisfying a girl sexually.

[lefthand]

The shaft of the penis is 2/3rds again as long as the exposed shaft and yes, losing weight can expose more. I will also tell you that less than one third of women are capable of being satisfied by your penis alone. I think you would do better to learn more about excellent hand play and cunnilingus than worrying about the size of your penis. Intercourse is only a part of sex and doesn't generally make or break anyone's opinion of someone sexually. Losing weight will gain you access to more possible sexual partners but it doesn't automatically make you a better lover.

The only people who care about size as a primary characteristic are gay men and inexperienced women who want to appear sophisticated. While gay men can be wonderful sex partners, pretentious, inexperienced women aren't.

[godoggo]

I have to differ with you, I know some pretty experienced women who like large penises.

[lefthand]

That's nice. My favorite quote on size queens (from my wife, no less) is "Do your Kegels, you great flapping ho!" Needless to say, I don't think a whole lot about a woman who thinks size is the be all and end all.

[Anonymous]

Boys must know , there are NO nerves in the vagina, tere is no sensation at all, could you imagine giving birth a whole human being with the extra sensitive cavity? we would die! , so penetration is not big deal, so it must be combined penetration with some hand stimulation, nipples, clitoris, that´s what matter, in my presonal opinion, I Hate bigg pennies, because it hurts a LOT at the entrance, those girls that want them big it might be because they are way too old or have had lots of sex and their entrance must be too flacid, they need something big to fill it...U should loose weight but for your own health, self steem will give you girls, and u´ll find they way to satisfy them...

[Asker]

Thanks. If you don't me askin if a guy is actually commited to getting a girl off can he usually make it happen? I ge tthe idea that a lot of guys don't even think consider if they're grinding with the clitoris and just gettin themselves off. Also, will it get a guy a long way if he's good at oral but not so great an intercourse?

[Opinion Owner]

Definetly yes!!! , but don?t worry that much, sex is everything about rythm, not size, most guys don?t care about clitoris , you can even see it on porn movies... guys f***ing girls but the girl is only interested in touching her own clito... you listen to her, toher breathing, she?ll tell you the rythim...

[RationalLioness]

Don't call people who aren't into small penises size queens. Why are you going to demean someone when they don't want what they want?

[mim94]

No but I'm sure she'll tell you :)

[Anonymous]

I'm sure size queens wish they could tell if a guy was hung, too.

The day when discussions about penis size become first date material is a long ways off.

Until then, some people are going to end up frustrated. Sorry, nothing you can do about it.

[Asker]

Yea its a shame thatd can't be the first thing you tell some1, its be a bit awkward tho haha