Have you ever had unprotected sex?

Have you ever had unprotected sex with a stranger and regretted it? I did once, with a guy I didn't know well. We were both drunk, we didn't have a condom and we went for it. I swear to got I was scared as hell! I had nightmares. I was so disgusted of myself. I went to get my self tested 2 months after the "incident' and Thank God everything came out negative. It was 2 months of HELL! I've never done that again! It was stupid, stupid, stupid of me!
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  • I've done pretty much the same thing, and I agree it's so stupid. And I still to this day can't believe I ever did that, I just recently got tested because I have a new boyfriend who I love and wanted to make sure I was ok, because we have now been together for awhile and we want to have unprotected sex (but with birth control) and I was clean thank god, cause otherwise I wasn't sure I was gonna be able to tell him the truth. It's so hard, and it really makes you think about things and I personally want to warn everyone to be careful!

  • Yes I have and yes I regretted it and yes I got tested. But to be honest when I was growing up and just starting having sex std's were not really talked about as much as they are now. Condoms were so you didn't get pregnant. We were kind a stupid about those things lol. Now I talk to my kids, and they are VERY aware of every bad thing out there now, from me or from information from school. Keep getting tested every 6 months, some things don't show up right away.

  • I have had unprotected sex 2 times and to be honest I never worried about the hole if I could have caught an std thing which is so stupid of me! But I did go through two months of hell thinking I could be pregnant because my period hadn't come yet thankfully I wasn't.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I've had sex with strangers before and had the desire to do so as well. Even to the point where I would even ejaculate inside of them. Of course afterward, I do regret it somewhat, but I would even go back and meetup with them again to have unprotected sex again, even if I find out that they were not using any kind of birth control as well. Currently, I even plan on doing it again with this one woman who isn't taking birth control and I will still probably ejaculate in her again. I guess the risk just excites me too much.

  • Never regretted unprotected sex. Feels so much better than wearing that latex helmet! The problem is that you really cannot risk it with a stranger. Sadly, all the sex I have had the past 8 years have been with hired dates and thus, protection was required. I long for the day when I can trust someone enough to have sex without protection. I have getting tested many many times and continue to do so.

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  • I've never done it because I'm paranoid anyway and would probably worry even more than you did. It does suck when you want to do something and don't have any protection, but I've managed so far to look at the big picture.

  • Not with a stranger, but with an ex and I fell pregnant... as one does...

  • This question looks a little empty answer wise so Ill admit my second time which is as many times as I've had sex, lol, was unprotected with someone I didn't know well and I got tested as well but we ended up getting together anyways and seeing what would happen relationship wise and I don't really regret it to tell you the truth!

  • Lots of times.

  • I've had unprotected sex quite few times with strangers/casual sex partners and loved every minute of it! A number of the women weren't on any form of birth control either. Sometimes I'd cum inside them multiple times whenever we met up knowing full well the risks of pregnancy and other times I'd use the pullout method ;-)

    To date I've been very lucky and never caught an STI/STD considering all of the bareback action I've had over the years :-)

  • Yes I had unprotected sex it wasn't with a stranger it with my boyfriend we barely ever used condom cause I am on the pill