Everytime I hug my crush I get a boner, What the heck do I do?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • The first thing you should do is enjoy being aroused around your crush. You are just experiencing a normal, natural reaction to someone you are very attracted to. Getting an erection is not in your control, mother nature is causing this to prepare you for mating and reproducing.

    I had trouble with this with a girl I was dating so I would masturbate in the shower before our date and that seemed to help some. It did help control me cumming when we were alone and making out. You might try masturbating when you know you are going to be around her. She may enjoy seeing that you get aroused just being around her. After all, it is a compliment to her.

  • maybe not hug her as much. or ask her out, she may get the girls equivalent from hugging you too

Most Helpful Girls

  • Try to control it, maybe try watching porn and see if you can control your boner. If you can I'd say you're good to go. In the meantime try hugging her at an angle maybe so she doesn't feel it or just don't hug her at all until you gain full control of your boners. lol and why the hell aren't more guys commenting seriously on this?

    • how the heck can a boner be wasted?

    • Wait what?

    • nevermind I messed up the comment

  • I had an ex who would push his nails into his palm and think about men's basketball. Subtle and effective. It took me a while to notice that he was getting a boner every time he hugged or kissed me.

  • Try jerking off sometime before you see her. Usually it takes a while for guys to get hard again so you should be ok🙂

    • I dont think itll work because I can get hard really easy, like 10 minutes after jerking off

  • Ask her if you could take her coat!. ( since you now have a hook to hang it on)

    • i like this^^

    • Lol ;-)

    • looolll

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  • Put a cup on it like in Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back lol

  • you stop hugging her.. lol... or just ask her out so these boners will not be wasted..

    • You are funny!!

    • How the hell can a boner be wasted?

    • xD xD XD xD

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  • Hmm, press it into her.

    • um... why?

    • So she knows you like her?

    • oooooh... right

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  • ask her out, make her your g :)))

  • How long do you hug her for?

  • Gotta redirect your pelvis to a more desirable angle.

  • Have sex with her dumbass

  • Don't worry about it he probably has one too

  • It's ok, she's probably flattered by it

  • rub your dick on her to see if she can actually feel your micropenis XD

  • Not much you can do lol

  • Just hug her anyway. Maybe she'll like it.