You MUST communicate with him. How can you expect him to just know these things? I'm not on his side but men and women often think different things at different times so while you're thinking he's just ignoring you he might be thinking you have had an orgasim and don't need anything else from him. Part of the reason you always want to cuddle after sex is because you don't orgasim. Trust me if you have had one, after sex is over you'll not want to move and will feel happy just laying in bed alone.
You need to tell him that you want to enjoy having sex and that's means your pleasure comes first. Since you have been together for a while I'm assuming that you're important to him and if he just knows how you feel he'll want to change things and make you happy.0 0 0 0Talk to him about it and let him know how it makes you feel. Try not to be accusatory or critical, because that could get him on the defensive- just be honest about your needs and your feelings. Then ask him to explain how he feels and why he acts the way he does. Maybe you can come to a compromise.
0 0 0 0If he's not willing to discuss it, address your feelings, or try to compromise, then unfortunately I can only advise that you end the relationship.
Oh mannn that sounds shit. Can't offer any advice other than serious talk or break up
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Literally after us guys cum, we lose all emotions to everything for like 3 hours. It's just how it works with guys, girls will never understand. Kinda like how we dont understand periods.
1 1 2 0Don't worry he's not using you. He just suffering after-cum emotion loss. Happens to every guy especially after masturbation.
I've never sensed that from anyone I've ever had sex with.
@samhradh_leannan Its complete bullshit. Emotions change men to a calmer state generally after the release of a lot of tension and energy but its not like I become a psychopath and lose all feeling after sex.
Some guys are just assholes like that. I personally don't like to cuddle right after sex because I'm way to hot I need to cool down a bit then cuddle
2 0 1 0This is me lol. Get off me, it's hot.
@RansomDraven lol right Its hot and I'm thirsty
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2 13he's a dick. Leave him
0 0 0 0Not at all. He's weird, but you love him, so get used to it.
0 0 0 0you need out od the relationship. find a guy that will give you the time of day and that can and cares about giving you an orgasm. just by some subtle hints your relationship is unhealthy and mosf likely won't last.
2 0 0 0I'm not the cuddling type, but I'm working on it for my SO
1 0 0 0have you talked with him about it? It doesn't sound like he is thinking about your feelings
1 0 0 0he sounds manipulative to me. he won't give u any attention after sex which means ur the one always giving him attention.
0 0 0 0have you tried making him a sandwich first?
2 4 5 0Angry ladies downvote and can't understand a joke.
@serp777 thats whats funny tho
It depends from guy to guy
I love cuddling so, I'd probably just lay there and enjoy the 'present'1 0 0 0Does he go down on you?
0 0 0 0No. He has maybe once before. But it was very short.
Well it's easier for me to cuddle with the fan on low because then I can cool down a bit and you should ask him to go down on you more and tell him what to do while he's there and make sure he knows where your sensitive spots are and you'll almost definitely reach orgasm eventually
He's cums and then gets up and plays on his phone or computer! Erm, I'd bin him off! The only person who can stop this is you Roboticsanon! Hope you get it sorted hun. :-)
0 0 0 0Noooo he's just an asshole. I never just ignore a girl after sex. Thats effed up! I love cuddling!
2 0 0 0some guys are programmed to feel guilty after sex, it comes from repeated masturbation and the guilt that may follow after that. You could talk to him, but if he isn't willing to change, you should find someone that makes you feel good about yourself
0 0 0 0Tell him how u feel
0 0 0 0i'm here for u bby ;)
0 0 0 0I think that's terrible and you should definitely tell him. Maybe not cuddling is okay if you both do something like eat. But he shouldn't just ignore you. That's stupid. Don't have sex with him if he's gonna be an asshole.
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