I can tell you that it sure is nice when he cums, but the most important thing is providing him with pleasure and good feeling. Making him cum doesn't need to be the objective and undo pressure on him to cum could just make it even more difficult for him to cum. When my husband and I (boyfriend at the time) first started having sex he rarely came and he never orgasmed (cumming and orgasming are separate for him). I had a long frank loving talk with him and slowly pried out the reason why. In my husband's case he needed to stimulate himself and for me to be an enthusiastic cum swallower. A started doing that and when I started actually enjoying it, he started having orgasms, big ones too. I love it. So find out what his sexual needs are and start satisfying them. This works in reverse too for satisfying your special needs.
Cumming from oral alone is different for each guy. Some can cum from that fairly quickly, for others it'll take a while or be not possible at all basically. Your boyfriend might be one of those.
If you really want it to happen though, don't pressure him. The more he feels like you're expecting him to cum, the more that will stress him out and work against his 'ability' to finish. He needs to be fully relaxed, enjoying the pleasure and let his body take over versus hindering that with his thoughts. It might take you a while to get him there. Lots of foreplay, making out, a bit of handjob action if your neck gets sore from working him orally.
Focus on just making the blowjob as pleasurable for him as possible versus working towards the orgasm.
I bet your boyfriend thinks you're doing gods work when you're going down on him.
Thank you a lot it helped already!
@BangBadBxtches haha I don't know about 'gods work' but he does enjoy my blowjobs quite a lot! @Asker I'm glad to hear that. :)
Based on experience, that i tried with my ex. I make him horny by kissing him first, then i started rubbing his dick while kissing him. After that, i lick his tip again and again before taking him completely in my mouth and down my throat. And guys like it if you can look at them in the eyes while sucking em off. That makes them cum so fast.
Try starting by rubbing your hands up and down the inside of his legs. This will help start. Make sure your hands are warm too. Play with his balls with your free hand, even suck on them every now and again. if he isn't cut, its going to take more work. Eventually it will happen, You have to play around and discover what he likes. You already hit the first step of communication by asking him what you can do. I myself can last an extreme amount of time during sex in general, everyone is different. One more thing and i'm not kidding when I say this, google works wonders when it comes to finding tips and tricks for this kind of thing. Its helped me in the past.
I am always either sucking his balls or playing with my hand he seemed to like it pretty much I don't think there's a problem with that I think he needs to be a bit more relaxed before I start it he might be a bit worried about not cumming I believe next time it'll work better
That's a possibility. In simple terms performance anxiety.
Some guys just can't ejaculate from a bj. Have you tried a handjob? Ask him to show you how he jerks off, that way you know you will be doing it correctly.
Also consider jerking him off till he is almost ready to cum then finish him off with your mouth. Your thoughts?
I did that i asked him to show me and I did so
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Tease him, work him up to being REALLY hard before you blow him. Dont immediately go at it, use the tips of your fingers, just the tip of your tongue, or just your lips.
Also, suck on a mint and once it dissolves then go down on him
Get him to open up and communicate his sexual desires. Nothing we say will help more than that
Move your mouth faster and focus on the skin on the under side of the head. Or get him to 69. As guys are lazy, you'd be surprised how quick he shoots his load.
Okay thank you that might help
Go faster and such harder. If you try hard I can't see how he would not cum unless there's a Mental aspect to it. there rarely is though with guys.
He once told me that he was worried he wouldn't cum What just really gets me so confused is that I made him cum a few times without him or me touching it by just talking dirty and getting a bit dirty I just don't know I can't wait to see the next time I'm going harder too I go grabbing tighter after some time and I go harder too ill see about that
Put it down your throat.
I am taking it completely in already I trained for months with cucumbers
Damn, I don't know what to tell you. He probably just prefers your pussy.
I'm thinking it has to do with his dick being circumsized cause he seems to be enjoying a lot when I'm doing it
Finger his ass works for me
You're either secretly gay or bi.
I don't think he would like that
You would be surprised
Deep throat, suck the balls, lick it from the base to the tip and suck hard. Gets me everytime.
Get a guy to do it.
He's not a gay or bi he's strictly against gays and bis
That actually helps my claim. Most often the more homophobic a person is, the more likely they are homosexual and angry with themselves for feeling that way.
I offered him to try something like anal for himself too. But no he's not homophobic he just hates when I talk about gays cause he knows I used to like them a lot it's not so weird after all
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