Does he want to try anal?

[Anonymous]

The guy I'm with right now is super strong and very experienced. I get really embarrassed talking about sex so we don't go there very often and it makes me feel even more lost in bed. So I have a few questions. He was telling me about anal and how its suppose to feel good for girls and that he's never done it before. He didn't say he wanted to but the last time we were together while we were having vaginal sex he started to touch my butt and stuck his finger in there a little bit...And he kept playing with it and eventually got a finger in there. Plus he would pull out and rub it in that area a couple times then go back. I'm not sure what to think about this, it didn't feel bad but it was weird and kind of exciting in a strange kind of way. He also told me it really hurt...I'm not sure what to do. Could he be wanting to try it? Or do guys usually play with butts like that? I'm open to trying new things but the whole pain thing makes me nervous, and the fact that it could be dirty and maybe embarrassing. Does it really feel good or is he just saying that?

[Anonymous]

yeah I think he wants to

here's my personal opinion:

i enjoyed it.. I too was nervous that it would really hurt

at first I felt pressure as he tried to fit it in it felt not uncomfortable but different as it went on it got better I honestly didn't feel pain at all, we actually don't use lube because I'm usually wet enough

all in all my experience with anal was a good one

its a different kind of sensation

a good one though

the only thing is that yeah it can get a bit dirty

my boyfriend didn't mind though

i felt a bit weird at first but I guess as long as he's okay I'm okay

it sounds as though your guy would be okay with any kind of dirtiness

that comes with anal because he's giving you not so subtle hints lol

[JonJames]

What a great post! Very realistic. I felt like I was there. Even though you skipped a few steps, it sounds like you had a very good experience. Did he finish inside you that first time with anal? And just curious -- how often do you do it now? Has it gotten easier/better? Do you prefer him to finish inside your ass, and if so, what happens to the semen? I am sure he shoots big loads up there? I produce more semen when I fuk a girl anal. She was the one who clued me in.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, he wants to try it. Some women like it, but many find it painful. And yes, it is "dirty" as anything that has contact with fecal bacteria is. It increases the risk for infection for both of you, but it is considered a very high risk behavior for the recipient due to increased risk of virus or bacteria entering though tears in the rectal walls. Some women will also experience a loss of rectal continence with time.

[DOCGS]

I think he likes it but talk abt it wth him ok

[janelov]

yes he is definitely trying to get you to try it... the bad thing about Anal is that eventually it will cause you loss of rectal continence, that is your anal sphincter would "get loose"

[Anonymous]

Yes, he wants to try it. If you want to minimize the pain, get some good lube, use lots of it, and get on top so you can take him in at your own pace. Yes, it can be dirty. Make sure you keep some baby wipes near by to clean him off before you let him go back in your vagina or you could get nasty bugs in there.

[Oddjob]

Some hate it. Some love it. Some can take it or leave it.

Yes. He is trying to get past the toll booth on the Hershey highway.

[Anonymous]

As long as he takes his time and you use a lot of lube you should be ok. Tell him just to stick with a finger or two for now so you can get use to it and a little more comfortable. Then maybe you can try full on anal later

[JonJames]

And/or just rub the head on her anus while she fingers off. NO woman has ever not loved this. You do regular until she is close. Then, usually in doggy, you take your soaking wet penis head and rub it on her butt hole while she rubs off to finish. No penis head has ever touched a butt hole this way without both moaning. If she has a good enough orgasm, her butt hole can "yawn" open, and the head slips in. DO NOT thrust right away. Just leave the head in until she pushes back. Works about every single time.