Funny how most of the people, especially women, who argue against this practice qualify it without ever having tried it. Just a thought.
First, I would say that fisting is not for everyone. Just like penises, every vagina is different: some can handle fisting, some can do it with difficulty and some just can´t.
In most of the cases I´ve heard of and seen women haven´t really gone out looking for it, but rather were introduced to it by someone experienced. The same as every aspect of intimacy that needs care and calm for success, fisting needs to be based on proper technique. In other words, lots of lube, knowledge of women´s body and patience to achieve adecquate stretching.
Comments that I've received from women who indulge in the fist pleasures coincide in the description of a sensation of "fullness" quite like nothing else, which goes along an enhancement of sensations.
So no, is not just a p*rn thing. Yes, it is not for everyone. And yes, although it might cause a little pain in the begining (bearable pain; if it's more than that, stop, cause you're doing something wrong), it can be an extremely pleasureable practice.
I love it
I usually stimulate my gf's clit before sex but lately I have tried more, each time I will add another finger until the other night I had half my hand in there she seemed to like it but it does downgrade my confidence when it comes to myself, if she likes that then why would she like my d*** ? need a womans opinion on this really
Those are two different things, after you finish with your hand everything will go back to normal within an hour or so, don't feel ashame or anything, it is great and it splits your sex relationship in a before fisting and after, if she does not complain you both should enjoy it. That will give more confidence to your relationship, she will feel closer to you and you should treat her well, she needs it to know that all is fine between the two of you. I've done it in a couple of relationship and it is great, of course only after they had asked indirectly. Enjoy the sex and all type of it, you don't know how long you are gonna be in this world.
It's all a matter of opinion, comfort, preferences, etc. if you want to awesome if not that's cool too! I have a rather flexible vagina. I've got big boobs, huge clit an a big flexible vagina. I am not overweight it's just my body type. I you want to do it then you need to work yourself up to it as you play. Add fingers one by one and then if you kind of twist the wrist as you push it'll slowly go in. Dont try to push an actusl fist in, simply the hand w fingers strait. fists hurt. It's a mixture of pleasure an pain but is fantastic. I love it personally =) hope that helps!
We don't! Women in porn will do it and pretend to like it because there are men who would want to see it. It has nothing to do with reality. It would hurt like hell. (Women don't exactly get off while giving birth, either. Women in porn pretend to love all kinds of things that normal women would never do.
I would have to respectfully disagree with you some women love it but are self conscious of their "tightness". I myself have been with a couple women who loved it and some who wanted to try it and it wasn't for them all depends on the person and women worry about tightness similar too how men worry about penis size, I myself enjoyed the feeling of sex after fisting much more then the tightness of other women, how tight you are is not necessarily going to increase pleasure.
I'm pretty sure that fisting is one of the many things that is generally only found in porn, and not real life.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Porn is generally made for men, so unrealistic things like fisting are generally put in it for the sake of men, not for women.
I wouldn’t say that. It’s a matter of the intimacy u and ur partner have.
yea...we don't like it
masochist: a person who derives sexual gratification from their own pain or humiliation.
i did it once cause a guy asked me to. it was my first time
hearing about it , and I honestly loved it.
So if you loved it...how come "you only did it once"?
My girlfriend loves it.
Okay first of all porn is Wonderful, it fuels our fantasies, it lets us explore things that are taboo to us, but! it is so important to understand porn is not real life. We should not be getting our sex ed from porn. These people are sex athletes who have been preparing before a shoot to create videos to help us get off. Not teach us.
So saying that real fisting is not like porn and yes there are some people who love it and will look for partners to explore it with. Fisting, vaginal or anal is a slow and extremely intimate thing to do with another person that can give mind-blowing orgasms. No it is not like giving birth and there should be no pain and if done in a safe, sane manner there is no damage to the vagina. The vagina is a pretty magical thing. If there is pain you are going to fast. The more turned on and relaxed a person is the easier it becomes and the first few times you try it you might not get the whole fist in. Some people may never get the whole fist in but still experience an intense feeling.
I get some woman might be horrified at the idea of fisting but if you are curious about it you are not alone, you are not crazy. There are a lot of people that share your curiosity. The feeling of fullness, pressure on your g-spot and being so connected with your partner is pretty amazing. If you are doing the fisting please don't just ram your hand in there. Use loads of lube and start slow, one finger at a time, slowly relaxing and stretching the entrance to the vagina. Stimulate the clit with a vibrator, fingers or orally and most importantly communicate with your partner. Ask them if it feels good. Do they want more or less? Don't be afraid to talk to each other.
I speak from personal experience, good and bad and as an sex educator.
I've recently tried it with my girlfriend... slow penetration and im talking 10 to 15 mins till full penetration is reached... We have done it twice and last night she had serious multiple orgasms over and over... so I think if it's done right with someone you love and your gental going in and coming out once finished it's can be sexually satisfying... honestly slow and steady is the way as our regular girls are not p*rn stars where it just slips in.
I do it to my girlfriend every once in a while and it helps her orgasm
I think it's each to there own I don't like watching p*rn never have tried a handful of times and doesn't imterest ME !
But doing a lot of the things that would be in it myself does a lot !
Including fisting and I really enjoy it
Again agree with Rainbows... Porn is aimed towards men for the most part (it's pretty obvious to us girls when we watch it by the way). Maybe some men think that is hott or different so they put that into some porns. I don't think you'd ever find a real girl who wanted it done to her.
fisting is not something I'd like or any other girls I know would like either. NO! That stuff is just porn. Honestly, I don't want to feel like I'm in labor when I don't have to be.
no thanks...
dont believe whomever told you that.
I personally love it... most intense sexual experience I've ever had. And I've done it more then once. My partner I'm with now is less experienced then myself and is still opening up to the idea of it. But honestly it takes time working up, and requires a lot of trust in your partner.
I agree entirely
Never heard of a girl who did. I definitely don't
I agree with Rainbows. I've never heard any woman say she wanted to even try it and it's never even talked about by us from what I have seen.
Women LIKE fisting? what?!?
Some of us do yes ;)
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