Why does my boyfriend go crazy when he sees me in a bikini or EVEN JUST SHORTS?

Question

I wear A cup bra, a normal to small ass, I'm pretty thin, I've been told I have a pretty face, and I'm a little bit below average in height. I do have nice abs, not a 6 pack, just toned, the only thing about me that is extra nice are my legs, they are long, thin, and tan. Why do I turn him on so much? I'm younger than him and he's very attractive so he can have almost any girl he wants, with bigger boobs than me. But he seems to be in love with my body & as he says "sexy curves" I'm not that curvy..

s3tupMayne · Accepted Answer

You can have a small butt and have it be really hot if you've got the right hips / waist to go along with it. And really the cup size isn't as big of a deal as is the shape. It doesn't really matter if they're big or small as long as they look just right.

It's not really as much about the measurements as it is about how all the parts fit together.

It's natural to question why someone feels the way they do about you because if you don't understand it, it's hard to trust someone. And it's not always possible for someone to articulate those feelings, so sometimes you get left hanging. But really you should take these answers at face value and believe that you really do have what it takes to get this guy going. Girls that turn me on come in all shapes and sizes, from the thick and voluptuous, Alicia Keys, them thighs like woah... to the very skinny, Jessica Alba is pretty much butt-less if you look at how much flesh is attached to those bones but she's got amazing hips and legs... to the girls with smaller chests, there's a lot of runway models who I would die for because of the attractiveness in their grace... to the girls with big chests, Playboy duhhh.

Btw, the cup size really isn't that big of a deal. Most Victoria's Secret models are actually B-cups (Miranda Kerr, Chanel Iman, and Alessandra Ambrosio are good examples), but their breasts look big because they're very slim (and VS makes amazing bras ha). And those are the girls we look at and go "wow I wish I had a chest like that". But really the letter doesn't matter, it's about how the rest of the body complements it.

You should notice that most of my answer isn't about what your body is probably like but how you probably see your body and that your view may not actually be realistic. It may be hard to see at first because the "ideals" in the media that we see all the time are so different than what we see in real life but it's the real life people that counts. Your boyfriend can love your body just because it's yours and beautiful in its own way, and if that's not enough to make you like it I'm not sure what you're looking for.

(Btw, on a side note, it should be stated that most models are skinny not because we actually find skinny people more attractive, but because when someone is bony, it makes it easier for a photographer to use tricks of the light to create shadows and what not to highlight a feature. Models are picked as much for their photographability as their attractiveness. There are some very attractive girls out there, like Alicia Sacramone, Shakira, or Britney Spears, who are total knockouts imo, that would wouldn't make as good of a model as someone with a harder face, like Emma Watson, who actually would be pretty good. You gotta aim to be the best YOU that you can be, not the best someone else)

Captain2010 · Accepted Answer

Not all guys what to date a girl with big boobs, A cup are definitely sexy and speaking as a fellow leg lover, I can't blame your boydriend for going crazy over you. Be happy!

Shantal2501 · Accepted Answer

I don't understand your question. You want to know why your boyfriend is attracted to you? Well that's something only he can answer and he might not even be able to explain it. He thinks you look good, simple as that.

NirvanaintheDark · Accepted Answer

...so your beautiful and your boyfriend thinks your sexy. What's the problem? Don't question it, just enjoy it. :]

Reeses-pieces777 · Accepted Answer

Because he's a guy and he's hormonal & a girl being semi naked is a turn on for most guys

Blackkid · Answer

He likes you. . . Duh.

ButterflyGirl · Answer

Ummm...? lol Something tells me you posted this just to brag about yourself.

molonski2 · Answer

I don't think there is a question ..According to this you have a nice body and your boyfriend finds you very sexually attractive ..Wheres the problem ? You don't have one

Killfest400 · Answer

Chances are, you're more curvy than he is.  Either way, he thinks you're sexy.  Don't question it; it's better to turn him on and not know why than to not turn him on at all.

scar1 · Answer

I prefer girls skinny but krazy voluptuos. although some guys prefer your body. although I've never heard of guys think A cup are sexy. it is that some guys don't date girls with big boobs

BlackSuperman · Answer

b/c he's a heterosexual who likes women... more importantly, he likes your body and the way you look.

yashik · Answer

hey there is a difference b/w liking and loving... well acc. to me he only likes you not love u...he likes ur body only to have relation wth u... as its my personal experience I have done alol like this wth my gfs...

Prof_Don · Answer

He's a leg man. ;-)

Oddjob · Answer

You might just fit his particular conception of "sexy". Each guy's tastes are a litlle different from the next guy's. Just relax and enjoy the fact that you push his buttons just by being you.