So I've given up on guys and am happy to spend the rest of my life single but I still want to have at least one child in my life but sperm banks creep me out, so I was wondering if it was weird to want to find a guy who would get me pregnant and leave not wanting anything to do with me or my child? Also are there actually guys out there like this? I'm not saying I want to use the guy I mean to tell him my plan and only going through with it if he were to agree!
Find a guy who would get me pregnant and leave?
What Guys Said 45
It is true! This does happen and has happened to me!
I have been asked twice to help someone get pregnant. The first time it was a definate NO due to me being in a relationship.
The second time I was not so this is what happened.
I was asked by an old school friend last year to help her get pregnant.
Story is she lost her husband when she emigrated due to him being in an industrial accident. Yet was desperate do get pregnant to have a 2nd child.
I considered it for some time and decided that since there was no financial issues as we both thankfully have successful business’s that I would do it as it was within my power to help her.
Yes it was the old fashioned way and yes she got pregnant and now has a beautiful baby girl!
I am thrilled now she has been born. I was very dubious at the outset but seeing the joy she has brought to my friends life has made it all worth while.
It was such a positive outcome I would very seriously consider doing it again because I have now been shown that children are a blessing and as such why should any women be denied that?
Yes I would definitely consider doing it again!
he doesn't know that you're not gonna turn around and sue his ass for child support after you lose your job, or the baby costs to much money, etc.1
It should be pretty easy, especially if you meet them online and a lot some degree of anonymity. I haven't read below, but I suspect at least half of the responses are "volunteers". And they're not kidding. They would absolutely do it. I can't really imagine there is a guy who wouldn't. It all depends on how anonymous you're willing to keep things - the more so, the easier it will be.1
I saw your post and was interested to contact you about it and hopefully get to know you and fulfil your desire to get pregnant, would u like a bronze complexion baby?
I'm looking to sow my seed, get a girl pregnant and want to be part of the whole process and experience, as well as hold someone in those amazing moment and trying times when you'd need me through this process. But if you just want the baby and i go that's fine too.
My name's Kalam, call me Kal, I'm a london native, born n raised, degree educated working in finance. Im 23, of mixed Asian origins, half pak n afghan, smooth light brown caramel color skin, dark hair, dark eyes, athletic build, and a very kind, caring and physical person, the kind that would hold you and hug u lots, even randomly, also very playful.
I'm into urban and rnb music and looking to maybe do some travelling and volunteering abroad, must most importantly in my life right now I'd like to be a lot closer to someone and have a baby with her. So let's chat and i'm sure we'll be right for each other. I'd love to make you a mum and I think we'll have a wonderful child together x.
Look forward to hearing from you, Kal xx. email me ldn2012@ymail. com0
I wish there were more women like you. I think sperm banks are weird. And laws are weird, if a father isn't forced to take responsibility in a sperm bank, why he is the natural way?
I would do what you want.1
You want to intentionally raise a child without a father. This is beyond stupid. Go visit a psychiatrist. It would help you and those around you a great deal.0
Where abouts are you based? I live in london, 30yrs old good looking white guy. If your interested email Supercool8@hotmail.com1
I would, at an appropriate age, be willing to do this when I have clear evidence that I'm not responsible.0
I can help by injucting my sperms in ur womb. My name is sanjay and i am from delhi. I have fathered ten children from diffrent females who were desprate to have child as they were not able to concieve. U r most welcome to call me on 9871044077.0
hi.. i would like to help you.. can you contact me on s. sharma0001@gmail. com
I'm very wiling to fly out there and help. Write me an email email@example.com
I've done this before0
it is natural. you dont have to deal with the daddy drama. i could help you with it. get you pregnant and all. nothing attached. if you are interested hit me up.0
Where you live? I'm interested is making it happen. I'm 32, 6'2'', very healthy, athletic, University degree and work as a consultant. What do you say?0
i feel for you and your partner have you thought of adoption perhaps?0
if you are steel trying let me know ok1
I'd help you x1
Just get f*** by a guy without a condom, and never talk to him again if you are pregnant.
i will be happy to help1
i wouled love to do that and helping you with that1
I can do that for you1
Right here I am searching to help women out with this.
I'd be habbo too hook with you give you a baby0
I'll help you0
I would love to help you out. As long it will make u happy0
i would love to help0
Mail me we can think about that0
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What Girls Said 14
Wow you don't want to do that, don't give up. I left my husband and my daughter was just born. I too was hurt, like you. While I love/adore my daughter, now 16, honestly, it hurt more to go through it all ALONE - you are cheating yourself, don't do that. Just get better at weeding out guys upfront, BEFORE you have sex or invest emotionally. Don't trust too soon and too early, be more careful. Become friends first, don't have sex until you are engaged or married, there are ways to make better outcomes and avoid being just hurt again.0
wow I'm 20 and I thought the same thing lol
like the only thing I need from a men is a baby. but you know whoever gets you pregnant will have to pay for the baby. if you tell him ur on the pill but actually you're not, he won't have to tho.
(at least that's how it works in my country. think its the same in the US)1
This is so ironic because there are some girls out there that do this but don't even think about the consequences. You, however, know what you want but I think you should rethink the whole thing. Let's say you end up getting pregnant by some random guy you never talk to again. What if down the road you meet a guy you truly fall in love with? You might regret what you did because you would have wanted to have a child with the man of your dreams. Don't get me wrong you still might have a kid with him, but wouldn't you want him to be the father of your first child?1
You are TOOOOOOOOOOOOOO young to start thinking about having a child. You have plenty of time for that.
Maybe in the future you will find a guy who you love, who you will want as the father of your child and who you will want to stay with.
Don`t throw away your chances of finding true happiness later just because you`re so impatient you would rather have a weak imitation now than wait a little while.
Really. It is too sad that you feel you have to do something like this in order to be happy. It isn`t healthy, and you need to make some changes.0
It may have been a year, but it I have to post. I'm 25, nearly 26, and I don't really want a man in my life, but... I would like to have a child. I don't think it is odd, and I've met some men that don't have a problem with it. Of course, if I could find a man that wanted a relationship, not just a $%buddy, that'd be great... but I can't seem to find "Mr. Right."
So, why shouldn't I be able to get what I want out of the $%buddy relationship? He gets sex, I get a baby, and then he can go away. I don't see the problem here.
My manager told me to get married (to a well-off man), pop out a few kids, and then get divorced.
I'm pretty sure he's just bitter cause he got divorced, but sounds like a solid plan.0
this is kind of stupid.2
You are awfully young to want to do that even if you are 24 I would wait a few more years until you have a child. They are a huge commitment and can be very expensive. Even if in a few more years you still want nothing to do with men you can follow through with your plan. You could just have a one night stand with some guy at the right time of the month and be done with it.0
I want to do the same thing!0
Am looking for a guy around USA to get me pregnant... text me 330 275 16010
I feel the exact same way! I want a child but I don't want the hassle of dealing with the man after the job is done.0
Something tells me you`re 19... and yes, that is WAY too young to be considering raising a child.
Have a little self preservation. Don`t make the mistake so many girls your age make... on purpose.
If you want to choose to live without men, that`s okay if you think it would be best for you. But don`t tie yourself down by making the decision too soon. And don`t waste your youth changing diapers.0
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