Find a guy who would get me pregnant and leave?

So I've given up on guys and am happy to spend the rest of my life single but I still want to have at least one child in my life but sperm banks creep me out, so I was wondering if it was weird to want to find a guy who would get me pregnant and leave not wanting anything to do with me or my child? Also are there actually guys out there like this? I'm not saying I want to use the guy I mean to tell him my plan and only going through with it if he were to agree!

I wouldn't ask for child support I'm not that young and the fact is I don't want a guy! I just want a baby and me!
I don't need money I don't want his money so forget the money thing!
I'm 33 just so all of you know


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  • Assuming there is some type of legal documentation he can sign that waives your right to collect child support from him, I'm sure plenty of guys would just to have sex. At least that's my thought around it, I'm sure you can find someone that doesn't go it about the smart way.


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  • he doesn't know that you're not gonna turn around and sue his ass for child support after you lose your job, or the baby costs to much money, etc.

    • I would sign something if I had to

  • It should be pretty easy, especially if you meet them online and a lot some degree of anonymity. I haven't read below, but I suspect at least half of the responses are "volunteers". And they're not kidding. They would absolutely do it. I can't really imagine there is a guy who wouldn't. It all depends on how anonymous you're willing to keep things - the more so, the easier it will be.

  • why do you want this? Like what makes you want to do this?

    • What do you think your child would think about not having a father?

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    • Every child deserves a father.

    • I would do this because two years ago on September 1,2010 my husband and I lost our 3 year old son to an autoimmune disease. If we were to go ahead with a vesectomy reversal we could have another baby with the same disease. The odds of having another baby with the disease for US specifically are 1:4. For most people in the US the odds are 1:50,000. We want another baby but without the worry of having a sick baby.

  • Just get f*** by a guy without a condom, and never talk to him again if you are pregnant.

  • It is true! This does happen and has happened to me!

    I have been asked twice to help someone get pregnant. The first time it was a definate NO due to me being in a relationship.

    The second time I was not so this is what happened.

    I was asked by an old school friend last year to help her get pregnant.

    Story is she lost her husband when she emigrated due to him being in an industrial accident. Yet was desperate do get pregnant to have a 2nd child.

    I considered it for some time and decided that since there was no financial issues as we both thankfully have successful business’s that I would do it as it was within my power to help her.

    Yes it was the old fashioned way and yes she got pregnant and now has a beautiful baby girl!

    I am thrilled now she has been born. I was very dubious at the outset but seeing the joy she has brought to my friends life has made it all worth while.

    It was such a positive outcome I would very seriously consider doing it again because I have now been shown that children are a blessing and as such why should any women be denied that?

    Yes I would definitely consider doing it again!



  • You want to intentionally raise a child without a father. This is beyond stupid. Go visit a psychiatrist. It would help you and those around you a great deal.

  • You're going to have to find someone who's stupid enough to agree to this while risking having to pay child support through the nose years later, and are those the genes you want for your kid?

    • I would ask for child support money isn't an issue with me

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    • Well, that might work. Just make sure you pick someone hot so the people of the future become more attractive on average.

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  • i feel for you and your partner have you thought of adoption perhaps?

  • I would, at an appropriate age, be willing to do this when I have clear evidence that I'm not responsible.

  • Let me guess you grew up in a single parent home.

    And you really want da kid to grow up without a father? Who's gonna teach da kid to be a man? You? Lol sad life.

    • There's nothing wrong with being raised without a father. I grew up in a single parent home and I'm alright.

    • My father wasn't around. She was more of a father than my dad ever was

  • I wish there were more women like you. I think sperm banks are weird. And laws are weird, if a father isn't forced to take responsibility in a sperm bank, why he is the natural way?
    I would do what you want.

  • i will pm me on here

  • if you are steel trying let me know ok

  • I'd help you x

  • Where abouts are you based? I live in london, 30yrs old good looking white guy. If your interested email

  • I can do that for you

  • Where you live? I'm interested is making it happen. I'm 32, 6'2'', very healthy, athletic, University degree and work as a consultant. What do you say?

  • i wouled love to do that and helping you with that

  • I would help you

  • Right here I am searching to help women out with this.

  • it is natural. you dont have to deal with the daddy drama. i could help you with it. get you pregnant and all. nothing attached. if you are interested hit me up.

  • I'm very wiling to fly out there and help. Write me an email

    I've done this before

  • I'm down for it. White, 31, 6'4", hung, slim, very attractive, and smart here. Also std free. I'd be happy to pass on my genes to a good mother. No future contact needed. If serious, let me know.

  • I saw your post and was interested to contact you about it and hopefully get to know you and fulfil your desire to get pregnant, would u like a bronze complexion baby?

    I'm looking to sow my seed, get a girl pregnant and want to be part of the whole process and experience, as well as hold someone in those amazing moment and trying times when you'd need me through this process. But if you just want the baby and i go that's fine too.

    My name's Kalam, call me Kal, I'm a london native, born n raised, degree educated working in finance. Im 23, of mixed Asian origins, half pak n afghan, smooth light brown caramel color skin, dark hair, dark eyes, athletic build, and a very kind, caring and physical person, the kind that would hold you and hug u lots, even randomly, also very playful.

    I'm into urban and rnb music and looking to maybe do some travelling and volunteering abroad, must most importantly in my life right now I'd like to be a lot closer to someone and have a baby with her. So let's chat and i'm sure we'll be right for each other. I'd love to make you a mum and I think we'll have a wonderful child together x.

    Look forward to hearing from you, Kal xx. email me ldn2012@ymail. com

  • hi.. i would like to help you.. can you contact me on s. sharma0001@gmail. com



  • are you still looking for a guy? I can help you.

  • I'd be habbo too hook with you give you a baby

  • I am help you. I am married man so I pregnant you & leave.

  • i would love to help

  • Mail me we can think about that

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  • My manager told me to get married (to a well-off man), pop out a few kids, and then get divorced.

    I'm pretty sure he's just bitter cause he got divorced, but sounds like a solid plan.

  • You are TOOOOOOOOOOOOOO young to start thinking about having a child. You have plenty of time for that.

    Maybe in the future you will find a guy who you love, who you will want as the father of your child and who you will want to stay with.

    Don`t throw away your chances of finding true happiness later just because you`re so impatient you would rather have a weak imitation now than wait a little while.

    Really. It is too sad that you feel you have to do something like this in order to be happy. It isn`t healthy, and you need to make some changes.

  • Wow you don't want to do that, don't give up. I left my husband and my daughter was just born. I too was hurt, like you. While I love/adore my daughter, now 16, honestly, it hurt more to go through it all ALONE - you are cheating yourself, don't do that. Just get better at weeding out guys upfront, BEFORE you have sex or invest emotionally. Don't trust too soon and too early, be more careful. Become friends first, don't have sex until you are engaged or married, there are ways to make better outcomes and avoid being just hurt again.

  • You are awfully young to want to do that even if you are 24 I would wait a few more years until you have a child. They are a huge commitment and can be very expensive. Even if in a few more years you still want nothing to do with men you can follow through with your plan. You could just have a one night stand with some guy at the right time of the month and be done with it.

    • Well if I had known your real age I would have had a different answer for you. You are old enough to take on the responsability of a child and probably make enough to take care of it yourself so go for it.

    • Thank you

    • Isn't anyone going to mention the psychological damage that children born without a father develop? Honestly, it seems everyone's all wrapped up in themselves.

  • This is so ironic because there are some girls out there that do this but don't even think about the consequences. You, however, know what you want but I think you should rethink the whole thing. Let's say you end up getting pregnant by some random guy you never talk to again. What if down the road you meet a guy you truly fall in love with? You might regret what you did because you would have wanted to have a child with the man of your dreams. Don't get me wrong you still might have a kid with him, but wouldn't you want him to be the father of your first child?

  • Adopt a kid. Why bring a child into the world (without a father to begin with) when there are children out there who don't have any parents?

    • This is a good idea but it's extremely hard to adopt as a single parent.

    • It's hard...but not impossible.

    • One I thought of that and I really want the kid to be my own child! Nothing against adoptive kids but I really really want my own baby or this would have been the way I took

  • this is kind of stupid.

  • I think many guys would be up to this. But is it fair to your child to prevent him/her from having a father?
    unless you have a brother or male friend that can be a role model..

    • It's still not fair for them to not have a chance to know their own biological father. That's their flesh and blood and it's important that a child knows who they are and where they come from. It's a very meaningful thing that every child deserves to have

  • wow I'm 20 and I thought the same thing lol

    like the only thing I need from a men is a baby. but you know whoever gets you pregnant will have to pay for the baby. if you tell him ur on the pill but actually you're not, he won't have to tho.

    (at least that's how it works in my country. think its the same in the US)

    • Thank you for letting me know I'm not completely insane :D

    • You're welcome, sis ;)

  • It may have been a year, but it I have to post. I'm 25, nearly 26, and I don't really want a man in my life, but... I would like to have a child. I don't think it is odd, and I've met some men that don't have a problem with it. Of course, if I could find a man that wanted a relationship, not just a $&#%buddy, that'd be great... but I can't seem to find "Mr. Right."

    So, why shouldn't I be able to get what I want out of the $&#%buddy relationship? He gets sex, I get a baby, and then he can go away. I don't see the problem here.

  • I want to do the same thing!

    • I really find the idea of impregnating a woman without having to care about reprocussions rather hot

  • Am looking for a guy around USA to get me pregnant... text me 330 275 1601

  • I feel the exact same way! I want a child but I don't want the hassle of dealing with the man after the job is done.

  • Something tells me you`re 19... and yes, that is WAY too young to be considering raising a child.

    Have a little self preservation. Don`t make the mistake so many girls your age make... on purpose.

    If you want to choose to live without men, that`s okay if you think it would be best for you. But don`t tie yourself down by making the decision too soon. And don`t waste your youth changing diapers.

    • I am not 19 haven't been for a good few years now

    • If you say so...

    • Obviously she said her age and it wasn't 19. It is her life, if she wants a baby by herself that is her decision. Nobody has a say because it is her BODY!