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Find a guy who would get me pregnant and leave?

So I've given up on guys and am happy to spend the rest of my life single but I still want to have at least one child in my life but sperm banks creep me out, so I was wondering if it was weird to want to find a guy who would get me pregnant and leave not wanting anything to do with me or my child? Also are there actually guys out there like this? I'm not saying I want to use the guy I mean to tell him my plan and only going through with it if he were to agree!
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I wouldn't ask for child support I'm not that young and the fact is I don't want a guy! I just want a baby and me!
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I don't need money I don't want his money so forget the money thing!
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I'm 33 just so all of you know
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  • It is true! This does happen and has happened to me!

    I have been asked twice to help someone get pregnant. The first time it was a definate NO due to me being in a relationship.

    The second time I was not so this is what happened.

    I was asked by an old school friend last year to help her get pregnant.

    Story is she lost her husband when she emigrated due to him being in an industrial accident. Yet was desperate do get pregnant to have a 2nd child.

    I considered it for some time and decided that since there was no financial issues as we both thankfully have successful business’s that I would do it as it was within my power to help her.

    Yes it was the old fashioned way and yes she got pregnant and now has a beautiful baby girl!

    I am thrilled now she has been born. I was very dubious at the outset but seeing the joy she has brought to my friends life has made it all worth while.

    It was such a positive outcome I would very seriously consider doing it again because I have now been shown that children are a blessing and as such why should any women be denied that?

    Yes I would definitely consider doing it again!

    Regards,

    Johno

    • Wow! That's what I am looking for. You're a good guy. It encouraged me to see there are guys that look at this positively. I have only just started thinking about it lately. Have asked two guys I know who have suggested their sexual interest... And neither said NO. They said you got me thinking... Hopefully they'll say yes and we go for it! I dont think its unnatural, as a lot of people argue here. Family is a construct anyways.

  • Assuming there is some type of legal documentation he can sign that waives your right to collect child support from him, I'm sure plenty of guys would just to have sex. At least that's my thought around it, I'm sure you can find someone that doesn't go it about the smart way.

    • I would as long as there would be paperwork waive my rights from child support i would be more than happy to have a long one nighter and get you pregnant and leave.

    • Sure no problem

    • Hey there Did you ever get pregnant? What area of Us do you live in.

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  • This is so ironic because there are some girls out there that do this but don't even think about the consequences. You, however, know what you want but I think you should rethink the whole thing. Let's say you end up getting pregnant by some random guy you never talk to again. What if down the road you meet a guy you truly fall in love with? You might regret what you did because you would have wanted to have a child with the man of your dreams. Don't get me wrong you still might have a kid with him, but wouldn't you want him to be the father of your first child?

  • Wow you don't want to do that, don't give up. I left my husband and my daughter was just born. I too was hurt, like you. While I love/adore my daughter, now 16, honestly, it hurt more to go through it all ALONE - you are cheating yourself, don't do that. Just get better at weeding out guys upfront, BEFORE you have sex or invest emotionally. Don't trust too soon and too early, be more careful. Become friends first, don't have sex until you are engaged or married, there are ways to make better outcomes and avoid being just hurt again.

  • It may have been a year, but it I have to post. I'm 25, nearly 26, and I don't really want a man in my life, but... I would like to have a child. I don't think it is odd, and I've met some men that don't have a problem with it. Of course, if I could find a man that wanted a relationship, not just a $&#%buddy, that'd be great... but I can't seem to find "Mr. Right."

    So, why shouldn't I be able to get what I want out of the $&#%buddy relationship? He gets sex, I get a baby, and then he can go away. I don't see the problem here.

    • Hey am 19 years old and am willing to help you out. Am not interested in the sex, I can also donate but what ever you desire. Would be great knowing there's little me's running around ☺️. would also feel great helping others.

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  • he doesn't know that you're not gonna turn around and sue his ass for child support after you lose your job, or the baby costs to much money, etc.

    • I would sign something if I had to

  • You are TOOOOOOOOOOOOOO young to start thinking about having a child. You have plenty of time for that.

    Maybe in the future you will find a guy who you love, who you will want as the father of your child and who you will want to stay with.

    Don`t throw away your chances of finding true happiness later just because you`re so impatient you would rather have a weak imitation now than wait a little while.

    Really. It is too sad that you feel you have to do something like this in order to be happy. It isn`t healthy, and you need to make some changes.

  • You are awfully young to want to do that even if you are 24 I would wait a few more years until you have a child. They are a huge commitment and can be very expensive. Even if in a few more years you still want nothing to do with men you can follow through with your plan. You could just have a one night stand with some guy at the right time of the month and be done with it.

    • Well if I had known your real age I would have had a different answer for you. You are old enough to take on the responsability of a child and probably make enough to take care of it yourself so go for it.

    • Thank you

    • Isn't anyone going to mention the psychological damage that children born without a father develop? Honestly, it seems everyone's all wrapped up in themselves.

  • this is kind of stupid.

  • Just get f*** by a guy without a condom, and never talk to him again if you are pregnant.

  • why do you want this? Like what makes you want to do this?

    • What do you think your child would think about not having a father?

    • I've always wanted a baby but I don't need a man to make me happy and I didn't have a father growing up. I just really want a baby but I don't want to do the sperm bank thing cause it's creepy

    • Every child deserves a father.

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  • You're going to have to find someone who's stupid enough to agree to this while risking having to pay child support through the nose years later, and are those the genes you want for your kid?

    • I would ask for child support money isn't an issue with me

    • Wouldn't*

    • Yeah, you say that now, but people change their minds and only a fool puts himself in a risky legal position only on the basis of someone's "word".

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  • Adopt a kid. Why bring a child into the world (without a father to begin with) when there are children out there who don't have any parents?

    • This is a good idea but it's extremely hard to adopt as a single parent.

    • It's hard...but not impossible.

    • One I thought of that and I really want the kid to be my own child! Nothing against adoptive kids but I really really want my own baby or this would have been the way I took

  • My manager told me to get married (to a well-off man), pop out a few kids, and then get divorced.

    I'm pretty sure he's just bitter cause he got divorced, but sounds like a solid plan.

  • If you were to do this, it would be a very good idea to get him some genetic testing. It does two things. 1. Screens our potential problems in the child. 2. Gives a base line of genetic propensities, so your child will have some understanding of his genetic heritage when a little older. This can be important for medical reasons as the child gets older.

  • wow I'm 20 and I thought the same thing lol

    like the only thing I need from a men is a baby. but you know whoever gets you pregnant will have to pay for the baby. if you tell him ur on the pill but actually you're not, he won't have to tho.

    (at least that's how it works in my country. think its the same in the US)

    • Thank you for letting me know I'm not completely insane :D

    • You're welcome, sis ;)

    • ill help kevin_gulbrandsen_9@hotmail. com

  • It should be pretty easy, especially if you meet them online and a lot some degree of anonymity. I haven't read below, but I suspect at least half of the responses are "volunteers". And they're not kidding. They would absolutely do it. I can't really imagine there is a guy who wouldn't. It all depends on how anonymous you're willing to keep things - the more so, the easier it will be.

  • Hmmm... 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

  • i feel for you and your partner have you thought of adoption perhaps?

  • I think many guys would be up to this. But is it fair to your child to prevent him/her from having a father?
    unless you have a brother or male friend that can be a role model..

    • It's still not fair for them to not have a chance to know their own biological father. That's their flesh and blood and it's important that a child knows who they are and where they come from. It's a very meaningful thing that every child deserves to have

    • I will help you

  • I'm amazed by all these guys willing to jump in bed with a girl they know literally nothing about other than her age simply for the sake of "helping her".

  • I'm single I would hehe :)

  • I would do it if i had paperwork that said you werent entitled to anything afterwards.

  • You want to intentionally raise a child without a father. This is beyond stupid. Go visit a psychiatrist. It would help you and those around you a great deal.

  • Let me guess you grew up in a single parent home.

    And you really want da kid to grow up without a father? Who's gonna teach da kid to be a man? You? Lol sad life.

    • There's nothing wrong with being raised without a father. I grew up in a single parent home and I'm alright.

    • My father wasn't around. She was more of a father than my dad ever was

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