Girls, are you turned off by a big/strong cumshot?

Ok, this may be a weird question, but I would like some honest replies, please. All my life, I've had very big, very strong ejaculations. I usually shoot several feet in distance, and (so I've been told) I tend to produce more semen than the average guy. I'm the type of guy that prefers relationships, to sleeping around, so my "body count" isn't very large, but it's been kind of a mixed bag of whether the women enjoy that, or not. As an example, most of them have difficulty with oral, because the end up choking on it, unfortunately. I'm just wondering if most girls like when a guy shoots like that, or dislike it. Have I just found the few women who don't, or is it really that common? Thanks, in advance!
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  • I'd like that. But that is unsurprising, given that (in my husband's words) I'm "a filthy, nasty slut".
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    "I'm the type of guy that prefers relationships, to sleeping around"

    Hahahaha well you damn well better... because honey, your woman WILL know if any merchandise goes missing from your shipments. If you know what I mean. (;

    • "As an example, most of them have difficulty with oral, because the end up choking on it, unfortunately" Do you tend dominant? If so, then this is most definitely not "unfortunate". Lots of women get off HARD on gagging and choking. And on humiliation (here, from not being able to swallow like a good girl). And on being made to clean up after themselves. (Ask me how I know...) You could go places with this.

    • I actually don't tend to Dom, really. That's not to say that I am sub, either; I'm just not aggressive in bed. What I meant by choking refers more to when I cum. The amount and force of my ejaculation tends to overwhelm their gag reflex. Typically they will pull away, as a reflex action, which does lead to a mess. The women that I've been with are not, usually, pleased by that particular outcome, in most circumstances. You do bring up a good point, though; about the domination/humiliation factor. That's just not a trait that I've, personally, encountered with my partners, but maybe that's something I need to explore. So, since you mentioned it... how do you know? :)

    • "I actually don't tend to Dom, really. That's not to say that I am sub, either; I'm just not aggressive in bed." Why not? Innate tendencies? Upbringing? Psycho ex's who called the cops? (happened to my brother) Dated only small women? Sometimes guys don't think about the last one. I'm lucky here not to be a little girl (6'2" house of bricks here), so I can actually get it hard like I want it. If I were my friend Anna (a 5-ft 90-lb Chinese girl) I don't think I could find a man on earth who'd smack me around the way I like. "What I meant by choking refers more to when I cum" Um, yes, I got that. "not, usually, pleased by that particular outcome" I might be wrong here, but here's a thought: I think YOU probably, to some degree, instigate this line of thinking. All it takes is the slightest facial expression. Girls take your cue. If you are hyper aware of this, you'll notice that you have a surprising degree of control, Dom or not. (continued)

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  • I'm indifferent. The amount of cum or how quickly/high it shoots out means nothing to me. If it's a lot I might be a bit surprised, but won't be turned on or turned off. It is what it is.

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  • Heck yeah, the more cum the better. I'm a cum lover for sure.

    • I'm glad to know there are women out there that feel that way. I just need to find one of them, l. :) Thank you!

  • Turned off? Not at all. I think it's a sign of virility when a guy pulls out and releases his sperm all over me with some force. No it's a good thing to me.

  • Hell no, just the opposite. I think the sight of a guy cumming heavily is a big time visual turn on.

    • I appreciate that, and it does make me feel better, thank you!

  • I love it when a guy has more cum, I don't know why, it makes me feel like he enjoyed it more haha. And that really turns me on. You shouldn´t be worried about that!

    • Thank you very much. I appreciate that. I'm beginning to think yours is the more popular opinion, and that helps a lot!

  • Oh no its quite attractive! as long as I dont have to clean up the mess :p

    • I try to be a gentleman, in that regard. I do, generally, make a huge mess, but would never expect my partner to clean it up. I've gotten lots of practice wiping down the walls, lol.

  • As long as it doesn't get in my hair, the bigger the better

    • Haha, I generally tend to avoid that, but it has happened, unfortunately. :(

  • I think a big load is actually very attractive. It turns me on more to be honest

  • Me, personally, I'm turned on by it-the messier the more fun, but I'm not speaking on behalf of all women. I think it's more of a personal preference kinda thing.