I think you can tell him you want 'no-strings-attached sex', and he may like the idea.
But - TRUST ME ON THIS - that is not likely to truly happen or last with an ex. There ARE strings and while the hot sex will hide them for a while, those strings WILL rear their ugly heads sooner than either of you will acknowledge, so maybe you'll both try to ignore them, and they'll silently get more tangled, till they are a mess to pull apart.
Do yourself a favor and either:
Go ahead and propose this to the ex, but discuss what you both think is wisest if things start getting complicated.
OR
Find another guy and let yourself have a no-strings relationship with him (glad to hear you place priority on safe sex!). If you and the ex are broken up, you owe him no explanation for your actions during this time, even if you get back together at some future point.
Also, do you know for sure that you know who your ex has been with? Are you sure you are any safer with him than with a new partner? After all, he owes you no explanation of his actions while you've been broken up as well, and thinks you'd probably prefer not to know.0 0 0 0
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Wanting sex is normal, and if your ex is willing, problem solved. Directness would work: "I need sex. Want to come over?" The advantage of a stranger, however, is that they have no expectations, and go away when told.
What you do when you're apart is none of his business, so your conscience should be clear if you get back together. You'll note that he didn't wait around for you.0 0 0 0I think you should tell him that ... tell him you just want sex and nothing serious he might understand , 6 onths is allot of time with out sex
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