How to eat a girl out?

I heard that the ultimate pleasure for a girl is oral. I wanted to try and give my girl the greatest pleasure since we agreed we won't have penetration until we graduate college (religious family background). We're both inexperienced but we're really passionate for each other, we agreed we can have until foreplay. This will be my first time doing this. She's a little bushy down there since it's not in our culure to get waxed or something. Is it okay? or Am I prone to get sick? From maybe crabs? What can I expect? What is healthy from not? Shes's a virgin but they said you can still get sick from it. I haven't seen a close up vagina in real life, so I'm a little nervous.
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  • First step - calm down!

    Most people are nervous when it's their first time doing anything of this nature.

    They really aren't likely to have crabs unless they have been near someone with crabs, so you're fine on that level.

    As to being sick - you may feel like you have butterflies, you're going to be nervous and you're going to want this to be perfect. Other than that you're going to be fine!

    here's a few tips to start you off:

    - Dont you dare rush into it. Tease them a little. Toy with them. Make them almost desperate for you - it tends to have explosive results, however, Dont make them wait too long otherwise it may have the opposite effect.

    Basically. Start by making delicate contact to that general area - upon sensitive skin - gently kisses around the thigh. Try breathing softly against her privates, the change in temperature works a treat.

    -Dont you dare do continuous long licks. It would be like a girl continuously licking the shaft of your penis and calling it a blowjob. Yes, it feels good, however you can do so much more. Use your tongue to toy with her clitoris, gently play with it at first and start to add more pressure, then, by all means throw in a couple of long licks, from bottom (or near enough) to top, to spread the labia. This gives you information as well as changing things up.

    - Be spontaneous! Basically, dont stick to the same routine! Change it up a little.

    MOST IMPORTANTLY!!!

    work of your partners reactions. Use her body language to guide you. If her breathing increases, it tends to mean whatever you're doing is working. If she is obviously really enjoying it, then dont change what you are doing. Her body will unintentionally give you all the answers that you could possibly want to know. Listen to what her body tells you, just relax and remember that is your first time and nobody is expecting perfection at first :) Some things take practice!

    ENJOY YOURSELF

    TRY TO FORGET YOUR NERVES

    AND

    HAVE FUN!!!

    Then everything else just falls into place!

  • i would suggest you both shower right before you guys do this, if its your first times the smell alone might turn you off. basically the top area is where she'll love it the most, try it hard and then softly to see what she likes more. some girls want you to use teeth. best thing to do is use your tongue on her clit, google it to find the general location, and have one of your fingers penetrate her. one should be enough, she's a virgin. make sure your fiinger is wet though. also dont try to swallow the juices, in fact you should use your own saliva to mask her smell and allow for a better tongue action. play around with it and try out different things. good luck.

    • What do I do with the juices? Just spit it out? On tissue paper? I'm sorry about the funny questions, I'm just really nervous haha. What if shower is not an option? She's very shy, she won't even pee at my place.

    • shower BEFORE she comes over to your place. just let your saliva flow out of your mouth on all over her body. sex is a very dirty action. you'll understand that soon

Most Helpful Girls

  • www.vice.com/read/guide-eating-pussy-100-guides You should read this! If it's in her culture and she showers daily then I doubt she has crabs and you don't get sick. I don't see why you would get sick, its all new so take it slow and vaginas aren't meant to perfect so don't think that they all look the same.

  • if you eat her out as foreplay and not let that substitute for sticking your giant cock in here use your magic stick it's the best!

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  • Honestly it may be best to have her shave and on the other points I think the other guys coverd well

  • Hairy is OK, no you won't get sick and ask her to give explicit instruction how and where to lick. Have her use your fingertip for her to lick to show you how she wants you to lick

  • sYou're not going to get sick, you're not going to get crabs or anything else. You are going to LOVE this. There is nothing like looking into your love's eyes when she comes because of what you're doing. It's perfectly healthy unless the woman has a STD, which if she's a virgin she won't have.

  • check out some porn, u might learn a few things. :D