i thought he did the last couple of times I gave him a blowjob, and we always made out after but today after I had 'finished him off', and swallowed, he was like 'i find it kinda gross to kiss after that, you understand why right?'
no I don't! I would have no problem kissing him after he ate me out,
what's with guys and not liking that?
would he find it not gross if I didn't swallow :S
why do you guys find it gross to kiss after a blow job? it's your own penis after all!
PS: Any girls have boyfriends like this too? What do you do?
I think its stupid for him to deny you a kiss after making him cum. I mean you just had his d*** in your mouth to pleasure him, so he should feel sorry for you to have it in your mouth too. Any girl who has to wash out her mouth or wait a while to kiss should not give their men bjs. you swallowed right, so its not like your spitting his come back in his mouth. Why would anyone get grossed out by themselves. When my girlfriend blows me, I thank her by kissing her not acting like her mouth is infected.
Most men don't eat their own SPERM, penis or not, just like females who are grossed out after receiving cunnilingus don't normally eat their own fluids. I don't have this problem, but it's understandable that some people have such aversions.
I don't see why some girls have such a hard time understanding this. I don't want semen in my mouth ever. Just because it's my own doesn't make it ok. It's not that I'm uncomfortable with my sexuality so don't pull that card. I mean we're talking about sexual acts with a girl, so that kind of rules out being gay from the start. I don't even like the smell of semen, I certainly don't want to taste it. If I was with a girl and she also felt that way I would not make her taste it either. However most girls like it or at least don't mind. That's how it's supposed to be. Guys like the sexual things about girls and girls like the sexual things about guys. The fact that most guys are turned off by the thought of kissing after a blow job should be no suprise.
i was afraid my guy was going to be like that, but in the middle of giving him a BJ sometimes he'll pull me up to kiss him while my hands are still going to town down there and than I'll go back and keep going ... maybe while you are giving him a BJ you could slowly kiss your way up his stomach to his lips and see how he reacts. He might be being so pleasured that he doesn't even realize it and will start kissing you while not even registering it in his head. Good luck though :)