What does it mean if you mess around with a guy (everything but sex) but he NEVER kissed you?

We hung out for the first time tonight and he was really cuddly. Then he started fingering me and I gave him a hj. We messed around for a good 2 hours. But the thing is, he never kissed me... WHY
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has a girlfriend. found my answer. thanks guys lol
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You put yourself off as a slut by allowing him to finger you. You should have slowed down then maybe he would take you serious. Now you are his booty call and then once he gets some he'll drop you! I used to be friends with tons of gu so I know sweet heart next time don't impress the guy til you at least have a first kiss and not sexually.

    • Found out today he has a gf...

    • Still that's being sutty.

  • usually a guy will kiss you on the lips or neck or something during. But I think time will tell you if it was a booty call type thing or smthg more. But if you hangout with him again try not to do anything sexual like before. Maybe he'll kiss u.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Unless you're lying about the fingering and hand job and a guy you wanted to kiss didn't kiss you...he doesn't trust you. If the fingering and hand job happened and the kissing didn't well that's f***ed up. I've never fingered a girl or gotten a hand job without kissing the girl simultaneously. Ask him why the next time you see him.

  • Well, if you skipped right ahead and went straight to the "good stuff", what's the point of the innocent "romantic" first-stage stuff like kissing?

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  • to be honest with you that weird LOL. I don't think it really means anything. He just went out of the logical order. if you know what I mean.

    • I believe she doesn't know what you mean.

    • You pretty much skipped dinner and went to desert