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Disappointed sexually by my girlfriend?

the girl I've been going out with for 6 months is a virgin,well,it depends how you define virgin,the most she's done is give me oral.we usually don't get all naked for oral,but a few days ago,i convinced her,even though she was very hesitant cause I think she's insecure.I don't have high standards I don't think,and I'm not uptight.But uh,i kinda regret asking her to get naked.She isn't over weight or anything and she is petite,but...well...she just isn't physically attractive with clothes off.I mean,by the time she finished giving me a bj,she asked me to go down on her,but I made an excuse up and said I had to leave.She has small boobs,and they aren't perky.I mean,it isn't too much to ask for a chick with nice breasts.They aren't incredibly small,i guess B cups,but they aren't perky for some reason.And her areola things aren't proportionate,they're huge. And she has stretch marks on her hips and thighs,which isn't really an issue.its whatever. And then down there,her mons pubis thing kinda protrudes out and her "lips" I think its the labia majora,the outer ones,are "thick" or whatever. I'm used to being with more physically attractive girls.Should I say something?
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  • You're a jerk.

    My boyfriend is the only guy I've ever let see me naked,because I was insecure.I, like your girlfriend have big areolas,and I wear a 36B cup,my areolas are like 2 inches wide,yes I did measure.My boyfriend jokes about them,and tells me all of the time that I have "pepperoni nipples" and I felt really insecure when he would joke about them,but he tells me he loves them and thinks their sexy.Plus,judging by how much he seems to enjoy sucking and licking them,they aren't a problem to him.

    I have stretch marks on my hips from puberty,but he hasn't said anything.

    My breasts for some weird reason aren't perky also,they actually point downwards,but he doesn't care.

    And my mons pubis protrudes.And I have quote on quote "thick" lips,it doesn't stop him from going down on me before sex every time

    I know my boyfriend could do so much better and find a much better looking girlfriend,but he loves me,and adores my body.It sure as hell doesn't stop him from having sex with me 2 or 3 times a day

  • And you say you don't have high standards...Now, let me ask you something : If you're used to being with more physically attractive girls, how come it didn't work? Because, a relationship is more than physical. Don't tell her any of this,ever! If you don't want to get physically intimate because of the way she looks, please break up with her. You will both be happier: you will find a "better" looking girl to satisfy your "low standards" (still laughing about that one) and she will find someone who wants her the way she is. Don't make up excuses, make a decision. She doesn't sound deformed by the way you describe her; we are all different and she sounds normal. Now, it may not fit your taste but that doesn't mean she isn't attractive.

    • I don't want to break up with her though.I really do like her.I've told one friend how I feel about this and he said I'm dumb and being picky and that all of ours friends would "do her" don't get me wrong,she is beautiful and makes me happy,but I feel like a d*** for feeling this way

    • Okay. It's something you have to work on. Your friend is right, being picky isn't great. It's nice you don't want to break up with her if you really like her. Let me repeat something though: DO NOT TELL HER ABOUT THIS. The smallest negative comment about her appearance can destroy her self-confidence, especially because it would come from someone close to her. Feel free to talk to me about this issue.

  • Do her a favor and breakup with her. She doesn't need someone so judgmental in her life

    • I'm really trying not to be judgmental.she is a sweet girl

    • Agreed +1

    • Couldn't agree more. Whether you're trying to or not, you are being judgmental. And someone else will love all of those things about her that turn you off. So do her a favor and break up with her. She can do better. How would you feel if she was telling all her girlfriends, "He's a really sweet guy. But his d*** is just gross. Not big enough, a weird shape I don't like. And he smells." You'd feel awful.

Most Helpful Guys

  • No. NO. Do not say anything, ESPECIALLY about her vagina. If you have to insult something talk about her nipples, but please for the love of god don't say anything negative about her vagina.

    If it irks you that much just leave, tell her you're leaving, then leave. Don't necessarily even give a reason or excuse, just go.

    You're a prick.

  • ofcourse don't say anything to you. it will devistate her. Don't make her feel bad. That is the last thing to do, ever! get to know her better as a person and that stuff won't even matter. That stuff really isn't that bad. Once you fall in love with someone. Their flaws become cute. So maybe lay off the naked stuff for a while.

    • I don't love her,but,that doesn't mean I won't.I do like her ALOT,very very much,but it isn't love YET

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  • You're kind of an asshole.

    Break up with her. if you don't like her someone else will.

  • Any of these are not good enough reason for you to say "disappointed"! Just don't break her heart. If you are not physically attracted to her, maybe you are also not physically attractive to her. It is a complex geometrical calculation a man's brain decide if a female body is attractive or not, and that depends on each of our genes. There would be a perfect match for her other than you.

  • You are f***ing disgusting. I'm sure you're no prize pig yourself. I hope you have to feel like you're unattractive, you shallow a**hole,.

  • wow...you are quite an ass...I would end things with her for HER not you...I'm sure she can find someone better, who likes her for her, and you can go find someone to "better" suit your needs...good luck...ugh

  • lol..this wasn't even clever.



    you're a girl who is insecure about one of the "flaws" in your fictional scenario so you make a guy's account to see how people would respond because you think you're always being compared to porn stars or something. I'm sure you'll troll a lot of people with this one however.

    • You have a wild imagination man

    • Some guys do think like that though.I had an ex boyfriend who used to comment on my body all of the time,cause he didn't like it

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