My breasts are unattractive?

[Anonymous]

My breasts are uneven and unattractive. I have 34dd breasts and to me they look smaller but my size is correct as I've been professionally fitted. My nipples sit low and my breasts sorta hang and coz they're so low I don't have underboob. I've never been sexually active so no man's ever seen me naked but I am scared for when I do have sex. My areolas are big and dark and when it's cold my nipples get hard the areolas shrink. I can see they're uneven but I'm not sure if other people can. My friend said she couldn't notice but I don't know if that applicable to everyone else. I'd post a pic but its not allowed coz of nipples. Based on description do they sound ugly? Please be honest

[Anonymous]

Trust me, I'm sure your boyfriend will love them. I've been browsing through GAG and sites similar for years and I've started to notice a trend. Girls are often insecure because their breasts are "too small" or "too big" or "too saggy" etc.

But, when guys are asked what their breast preference is, the majority of guys say something along the lines of "I don't care, boobs are boobs and boobs are great". You will even get some guys that have preferences for breasts outside of what is typically preferred. For example, I've read posts of some guy stating that they like smaller breasts and I've read a couple stating they prefer saggy breasts because they are "more fun to play with"

But either way, I'm sure your boyfriend will be thrilled to see your breasts.

[BellePepper]

Everyone's breasts are uneven. There are some women who are two different cup sizes. And yet they still lead happy and active sex lives. Your nipples are also normal.

Who even cares what a guy thinks? If he's like "oh noes your totally normal and natural human breasts are different sizes! My dick is dead." he's not the kind of guy who's good enough to see your boobs anyway.

I also think you need to find a therapist. You are old enough to have moved past this.

[Asker]

Mine are so noticeably I notice them. My areolas are big tho... And I have a man and we have the had sex yet. We've been together almost two years and he loves me deeply. I'm worried he won't like them? Or he'll think they're ugly

[BellePepper]

He's been hanging around for two years. I seriously doubt that he's going to leave because of your boobs. He might leave because of your insecurity about your boobs though. See a doctor.

[Asker]

You're right I don't think he'll break up with me but I don't want him to think they're ugly. He always tries to make me feel beautiful even when I feel most unattractive. I don't wanna put him off... Will a doctor be able to touch help with my breasts?

[BellePepper]

YOUR BOOBS ARE FUCKING FINE Is that clear enough for you? Go see a therapist not a plastic surgeon omfg.

[Asker]

No need to be rude about things you don't wanna read what I say don't answer the question simple as

[BellePepper]

One could also say that if you don't want answers, don't ask a question. I have you the same answer twice and walked you through the logic. Simple.

[Asker]

I want answers just not from rude people like yourself

[BellePepper]

Really? Because I have you not one but TWO exceedingly clear and kind answers and you still wanted something different. Do you know what that tells us? It says that you don't want *answers*. You want validation to go get surgery or keep hiding instead of addressing the root cause of your problems.

[Asker]

Nope actually I don't want surgery... fake breasts have never attracted me. And no I didn't want anything different all I said was do you the the doctor could help with my issue at hand.

[BellePepper]

I've told you to see a therapist four times and you're asking me if I think you should see a therapist...

[XNicholeMariex3]

I'm also a 34 DD but I do not have this problem. Honestly, maybe you are just overly conscious? If you do have this problem, you are the only one who notices it... it really isn't much of a problem then is it? :)

[Asker]

I'm not sure if I'm overly conscious coz I don't know I've taken pictures to see how it looks and it looks disgusting to me and it really upsets me coz I feel like when I go to have sex with a man I love he'll be put off. Maybe your breasts are Norman and mine are abnormal? In the mirror I can't tell but in pictures they look so uneven but when my friend saw them she couldn't tell

[hellionthesage]

Its normal for the breasts to be uneven (usually the left side is slightly smaller then the right) and their are always going to be slight differences. In short your fine, no guy will complain if anything they will probably be thrilled at your bust size and the fact that they are seeing them uncovered. You notice inconsistencies because your looking for them, others will not and by extention not notice them, and even if they do the fact is guys really don't care. Your fine, theirs nothing for you to worry about.

[Asker]

Lol thanks I hope so

[hellionthesage]

Don't need to hope, its pretty much fact, you flash your boyfriend and he will be thrilled. But I am glad I could help. :)

[Anonymous]

Most girls have uneven boobs. Guys too actually. Nobody is symmetrical. Most girls with big breasts have large areolas and a bit of sagging. Any guy whose been sexually active will know what to expect when he sees you naked.

I would be more surprised if a girl took off her top and had perfectly symmetrical breasts with tiny nipples.

[Asker]

Ik I feel mine are noticeably uneven tho? I do have larger breasts and they do hang a little... He says he's been sexually active before so he should expect it but he says most girls he's been with are a or b cups...

[thorthorley]

aren't breasts supposed to be uneven. I mean if there is a huge difference then i would be wierded out, but i think all breasts are uneven.

[Asker]

Huge difference like?

[thorthorley]

I don't know, but heaps of girls have that.

https://www.gurl.com/2013/02/01/uneven-breasts/#1

[9mfeo]

Your boobs are fine. Seek help from a therapist for your pathological insecurity.

[Mesonfielde]

No the breasts don't sound ugly but you sound excessively insecure about something most people wouldn't even notice

[Asker]

So guys don't notice these things?

[Mesonfielde]

Well I know I wouldn't really care if the situation arose, lol.

[Asker]

Lol let's hope my boyfriend doesn't care

[TadCurious]

Breasts come in all shapes and sizes, and I love them all. Your breasts don't sound ugly at all.

[Asker]

I hope my man likes them... The nipples are quite low my breasts aren't empty tho if you understand lol

[Watermelonoma]

i'm sure they look worse in your head than they do to a typical guy

[Asker]

How can you be so sure lol

[Watermelonoma]

because there's never been a guy in recorded history that has thrown a girl out of bed because her breasts were uneven. This type of insecurity, and hypersensitive nitpicking is purely a female invention.

[Asker]

Lol I hope so... I'm in a relationship with a guy and we haven't had sex yet but we want to but I'm scared of what he'll think. We've been together for almost two years now and he loves me truly but I don't wanna put him off

[Watermelonoma]

it won't put him off

[Jayded1]

They sound fine. You dont need to send anyone a picture. i am sure it is in your head. I am sure any guy on here will accept a picture sent to them, if that would make you feel better. just look for ones that don't seem creepy. Haha

[Asker]

Lol I'm sure any guy would accept pics lmao but I recently read one post where a guy commented that he remembers a girl posting her breasts aand they were hideous... So that made me think that maybe mine are too? I hope it's in my head lol and lmao they all seem creepy 😂

[Jayded1]

Hahaha you will always have the guy on here being trolls. Look how many people posts models pics for rating and there are always some guys who will trash the professional model and say she is ugly. They are just little kids trolling. I have seen some girls post boob pics before they got taken down and they were all wonderful. lol

[Asker]

Lol thanks... I never thought of it like that but now you say it kinda makes sense. Thanks tho!

[Cocoa_pebbles]

Every girl has uneven boobs. Unless she has gotten work done. And I think the whole nipples getting hard when it's cold and areoles shrinking happens to everyone. Well it happens to me at least.

[Asker]

Yeah but when you're turned on do they go like that or stay big? And I don't know i feel like mines are noticeably uneven and he's gonna get so turned off...

[Cocoa_pebbles]

I don't know I guess I never really paid attention while being turned on. I doubt he will get turned off. I think you're being too hard on yourself.

[Asker]

Hmmm I hope you're right!

[RasAlGhul]

i think u put that in your mind. 1st its normal have a boobs bigger than other and size of aureloas and collors doesn't matter i think no guy would be turn off for that

[SammyPorter]

Nope, i'm pretty sure they're not, normal women boobs are uneven, we're not store mannequins ;)

[Anonymous]

Post a pic with a white or see through shirt and no bra. Did you wear a bra a lot during your childhood? Bras with good support that sits high?

[Asker]

Nah when my breasts started growing I hated wearing a bra even tho they were big

[Opinion Owner]

My mother has always told me that's what it is and that should always wear a well supported bra or they'll sag or droop later.

[Opinion Owner]

Just wear got support bras now on. While sleeping etc.

[Asker]

Lol I've heard thats a myth but I don't know... i wear one now always apart from when I sleep as it gets uncomfortable... With big breasts they sag anyways I guess

[Anonymous]

everyone is a little uneven. post a pic and i can give you a better analysis.

[Anonymous]

Your boyfriend will just be excited to see and touch your boobs, he won't care if they are uneven. Mine are uneven and I have never had a guy say anything except "mmm boobs!"

[Asker]

Lmao but mine aren't perky! The nipples sit a little low too

[Opinion Owner]

Mine aren't perky either and sit low. They always have but now that I've had a child they are a bit worse... but I still notice guys stare at them sometimes, even young guys lol. Actually from sounds of it yours are a LOT like mine haha.

[Asker]

Lol but you have had babies!!! I'm 22 no kids and I have these horrible breasts and I don't wanna lose the man I live because of them

[Opinion Owner]

Even when I was your age and didn't have kids mine hung a bit low and there is a fairly big gap between them so I could never get that sexy butt crack look unless I use a pushup bra. Haha.

[Asker]

My gap is about two fingers I can hold them into a butt cracking and also in a push up bra but in a regular bra they look fine. They're 34dd atm but why do they look small to me

[Opinion Owner]

Omg mine are same and I always think. the look small too but they are 36 DD. It is because when they aren't in a bra they sit s bit lower and so flatten out. Take a photo of yourself in a t-shirt (with bra on) and see if they now look big. I found mine did. I sent a picture of myself to a guy friend, just with a t-shirt on (not a nudebor anything haha) and first thing he said was that he liked my big boobs and it wasn't until then that I looked at the photo amd thought yeah I guess they do look big. But in the mirror and no bra they look small. But yeah if I grab them I can push them together and get the butt crack. And when I hold them they are more than a handful (I have big hands too) so I guess that means they are big.

[Asker]

Lol mine are 34dd and the left is slightly bigger so either 34dd or 32e both fit me... In a bra they look good they look nice and he's seen them in a bra and he thinks they're sexy but I've never let him see them out of one coz I'm too scared!!! Lol... There's more than enough to fill my hands and for a girl I don't have small hands they're normal I guess

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like yours are a lot like mine, maybe mine are worse in the hanging lower haha. I really think if your guy won't care at all - he probably just wants to. get his hands and mouth on them hahaha.

[Asker]

Lmao thats fine coz all I wanna do is put them in his face lollol!

[Opinion Owner]

Lol I am sure he would LOVE that. So I am told, boobs make them go gaga.

[Asker]

Lol he likes them as in the size of them... He's seen them in a bra and that excited him lmao so I guess he will!

[Opinion Owner]

Oh he will !!! You should show him 😜