I can only have an orgasm when I'm on top ?

I am a very sexual person and my boyfriend loves that about me. BUT, the only problem that is I can only orgasm when I am on top and doing it a certain way. I love doing it anyway really, but its frustrating I have to go back to the same old way every time to have an orgasm? I can't have an orgasm from just penetration? What can I do?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Odds are then that you're experiencing a g-spot induced orgasm and being on top puts your partner's penis in a position to make direct contact. Try masturbating to clitoral orgasm while having sex (at first).. In other words, reach down and stimulate your clit while you're on top. Eventually you'll learn how to come off the clit alone. From there you won't be so reliant on one particular form of stimulation to orgasm.

    • No, that the problem, I can't have a gspot orgasm only clitoral when I'm on top.

  • You need to be riding a big **** with stamina in order to come from penetration alone. Your man must not be big enough or workin it right (stamina, rhythm, etc).

Most Helpful Girls

  • The vast majority of us do not orgasm from just penetration. It's stimulating that little man in the boat (cllitoris) that rings our bell for the most part.

    So don't be flustrated, your just normal

    Hint: In other postions ask boyfriend to play with the litte man. That should help.

  • I almost never orgasm unless the guy is on top. It is frustrating I agree. Usually my partner will get me off then we can do what ever other positions we want until he cums.

  • Me neither - On top or spooning is the only way for me to come other then clitoral.

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  • You really need my tongue not a guys thing, my tongue really doing great job for u

  • You really need my tongue not a d***, my tongue really doing great job for u

  • Some girls are like that. for me, I can't orgasm unless it's oral. it's frustrating and annoying for me and my bf.