Why do guys like big boobs better?

I have small boobs. I always see guys ogling and talking about big boobs like they're the holy grail or something. I'm not saying big boobs are bad, but are they all that? I mean even fake boobs. Guys love drooling over women sporting huge, fake cleavage. A woman can have a great body, be in a bikini, but if she has small boobs she'll hardly get a chance to pose for a men's magazine. Whereas a busty girl with a good body will get the job, be ogled, and considered a sex goddess. Why? She just has more fat in her chest than a smaller girl!

I don't get it. Guys and their love for big boobs annoys me, it makes me wonder why is it that I'm considered to be lacking? I'm a full woman, too. I have an ass. What the hell? It upsets me. What is SO great about big boobs? They're for feeding babies anyway. And it doesn't matter whether they're big or small, sexually, both give a woman the same amount of pleasure. Why am I considered less attractive by the general male population just because I didn't grow "enough" fat on my chest?

This is a very sensitive topic for me. I didn't choose my genes. So why are big boobs everywhere, in porn, men's magazines, etc? What makes small breasts less attractive? What can I do about it? Are implants that bad? Should I get them? I feel I have a really nice body, but guys still pay more attention to busty girls.

Updates:
1) OK, taller men, fair enough. Although the large majority of women are shorter than men. Even a really short guy can find an even shorter partner.
2) Penis size: Do you see big penises in billboards or on TV everyday? Is your penis on display, even through your clothes, for the world to judge? Apples and oranges! The penis is always hidden, like a vagina. Breasts are not, people can easily tell.
It sucks that guys always get so defensive about this and throw things like penis size or height. I'm not a shallow girl, so it doesn't apply. I don't like monster tall guys nor huge penises (btw, if you think a bigger penis is better you probably watch..
.. you probably watch too much porn. Most women don't like a huge penis (not even porn stars) because guess what guys, IT HURTS!)
 

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  • Why do most girls like taller guys? That's also genetic, and there's even less that can be done about that. The "men like things we can't change" issue is a two-way street.

    For one, boobs are fun to play with. Guys don't have boobs (excepting moobs, but those are gross), so getting to touch and play with a nice pair of boobs is always good fun. Smaller boobs don't have the same play potential that large ones do.

    For two, big boobs (and curves in general) are more feminine features. Since men don't grow boobs, the presence of boobs is considered feminine. Men are attracted to feminine body features, and women with a more feminine body are more likely to be considered attractive.

    For three, guys are obligated to show attraction to large boobs (even if they don't really care) because the media says they should. It's a social pressure, but there are lots of guys who like small boobs just as much as larger ones.

    I should also mention that "bigger is better" only applies up to a certain point, because eventually boobs will stop being firm and round, and just end up being saggy and gross.

    I'm not trying to discourage any of our small-chested ladies; I am stating the reason why bigger boobs are preferable to smaller ones. For an actual relationship, personality is much more important.

    • Boobs aren't the only feminine feature. I also know guys who check out a girl's butt as she passes by. Both are feminine features, and both get ogled. The butt is at the back, so it doesn't get ogled as soon as the girl walks in the room.

      Hair doesn't count. Not only is long hair not gender specific, but it can also be significantly changed (without surgery).

      I don't know any guys that show interest in narrow hips. Usually, it's the wide hips that get attraction, provided it's not fat.

    • Even though I only have a 32 B I see where he is coming from sadly its very true for the most part once my boobs start to sag ill probably get implants just big enough so they don't sag anymore. but on the plus side my boobs are very plump and don't sag one bit so I'm not down on myself for them, they have a nice shape :)

    • And what do you mean by 'play potential'? What makes big breasts better to play with? What makes smaller ones inferior in your opinion?

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What Guys Said 15

  • If you've spent any time at all on GAG you'll know there are a LOT of guys who prefer smaller boobs. I don't get it either, but clearly they're out there. It sounds like you've got a good body so I'm sure plenty of guys will find you attractive. But yeah--a phenomenal rack on a fit girl wearing a bikini will always grab a lot of attention.

  • I honestly don't have a preference on boobs, I like them and all but not too bothered about size. I'm more interested in stomachs physically, a toned belly is wonderful :3

  • I think guys who like big boobs are just more vocal about it and the rest who don't care that much aren't heard. I think that boobs that are too big look bad. Medium is preferable. As long as you're not flat chested Ithink you'll be fine (Idon't know why my computer is doing this weird font Iseriously hate computers so much).

  • Women like Men who're hung & tall & I like women of all shapes & sizes so whether she's curvy, bbw, petite or somewhere in between I'll hit it. (:

  • Idc about boobs at all

    Face and personality

    I am an ass guy if anything

  • Love medium to large sized boobs, to me a M or L are just a 10

  • I like all boobs. My ex had b cups and I loved them. Small perky and just the right roundness. I know have by wife who when we were dating had c cups and I have to admit I had to get used to them but now I love them. Even more so after seeing what they can do for a baby. I think it is all in the eyes of the beholder

  • Some men prefer small puppies, their are websites dedicated to it not everyone is the same guys have different preferences, its your preception of what men like that is wrong.

    • As you get older you realise a relationship won't last on looks or lust alone you need mental attraction as well. Your appearance and body will change as you get older. Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone who only values you physically. Don't believe everything you see on tv its not real.

    • I have yet to find a guy like this. I've heard they exist, but I've never met one. And what else am I to perceive if mainstream media puts big breasts as sexy as opposed to small ones. I know guys have different preferences but from my own experience I can tell you the ones I've met, while they certainly can appreciate a couple pf small ones, all seem to favour big ones better and by that I mean can't take their eyes off, drooling, losing trail of thought, getting wood, etc by the sight of it.

  • No I'm not trying to be defensive, I was just trying to make an analogy on the whole "bigger is better" mindset that gets thrown into society. I could have used a different one, but that one seemed to get my point across better.

    If I was being defensive, I'd mention about how girls ask me if I like small breasts if I ask them about what they think of small penises, but I won't. But I guess I did. :S

    Anyway, how come you want guys to notice you so much? A lot of girls I know with large boobs wish they didn't have large boobs so that guys don't "ogle" all over them in the first place.

    If you want the truth, most guys like big boobs 'cause they're visually and physically stimulating to them. You can see them, you can touch them, you can feel them, play with them, whatever. Big ones are more "engaging" or more "exciting", so to speak, more so than small boobs.

    But if you want to know what I think, I think you're fine with whatever size you've got.

    • It may suck to walk into a room and not have people noticing you, but that's definitely not gender specific.

    • I guess that's true too. I feel really bad now, lol.

      I can somewhat relate to that though. I'm a short chubby asian guy and I always feel like I'm not good enough when I see girls drooling over the "tall blond jock" guy.

      I wish I knew what to say, but I really don't. :x

      All I can say is good luck, and I hope you can try to feel better about yourself somehow.

    • The girls with big boobs don't want to be oggled but at the same time they have no idea what it feels like not to have guys staring at you. They walk into a room and know there's something every guy in that room likes about them, small chested girls walk into a room see the girls with big boobs being oggled and honestly it's really hard to to not feel like you aren't good enough when guys don't drool over you everywhere you go

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  • Well why am I considered less attractive by the general female population just because I didn't grow "enough" muscle in my penis? I can't choose what size I get, but I get judged by it anyway.

    Nothing makes small breasts less attractive, the world just portrays large breasts as more attractive. Guys feel like they have to be attracted by large breasts and girls feel like they have to have large breasts to attract guys. It's a funny cycle.

    To be honest I myself prefer smaller boobs to large boobs on a girl but the whole deal really doesn't matter to me. She could be any size for all I care, as long as she has a nice body and a great smile, I'd still find her "attractive"

  • BIG boobs are definately noticed, it is like a magnet...BUT, while yeas I love to look at them, when it gets down to sex or a relationship, I like small boobs, and find them equally sexy. why? big boobs slap you in the face during sex, get all sweaty etc, and sag...small do not

  • Shallow jocks like huge boobs because its about what other guys think about them. On a primitive level its perceived as better reproductive material but scientifically that's been proven false.

    A lot of us like B's or small C's :) I find smaller breasts attractive because they compliment the thin female form. Huge D's and E's look completely out of place on most women.

  • it is like when deer stare into car headlights. Men stare into women's headlights

    • Ugh

  • It's because of evolution, and we can't help it. Large breasts signal that the woman can feed babies, and the primal survival-of-the-species instinct tell men, that they want a woman who can make sure his offspring doesn't starve to death.

    But I think you're wrong about the fake boobs. Seems that most guys get turned off the moment they find out they're fake. At least I do. It tells me something about the girl's personality that I am not interested in. Hard to explain, but feel free to ask away if you haven't figured it out.

    Well, I don't know what you can do to get bigger breasts. Maybe eat a little more?

    Just don't get implants. Implants yell out things guys don't like in women, to put it short. Instead, focus on the parts of your body that you feel good about.

    Walk with confidence. It's personality that matters the most. Good luck out there!

    • They're fake? Definitely a turn off.

    • And she has fake boobs! I bet no one would think she's hot if she didn't have fake t*ts.

    • I just googled her. Yes, she is hot. But I think she would be hotter if she had more curve. Just my opinion.

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  • I like them not too flat just plumpy and ripe but not too big that's a turn off for me atleast. I'm not a titty guy anyways that's not my fetish.

    • He likes big butts and he cannot lie?

    • Are you an ass kinda guy

What Girls Said 2

  • I think boobs on a woman are like height for a guy - they really have no additional function or anything, it's just something most of us tend to prefer to be there. You can't help attraction, and boobs are a trait of femininity. Most guys don't care too much either way, but big boobs are likely to draw a stare.

    • Yeah, everyone has preferences. No problem with that :)

    • I mean yeah they are sexy but I would prefer a girl with no boobs but with an ass over just a girl with big boobs

      I don't judge people by looks but just saying

    • So it appears, Boobie :P

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  • I hate it when guys say that they have it just as bad as girls! In the media it is said in plenty of movies/books that if you are a nerdy, unattractive guy then you can still have a hot beautiful girlfriend. But there are only a few movies stating that a girl doesn't have to be beautiful, thin, or big chested to get a boyfriend.

    I have a boyfriend and my breasts are small and weird shaped. He says he doesn't mind them (which means he hates them, he sucks at lying) and he just oogles at other girls with big chests all day. Don't get me wrong, he's allowed to admire other girls... it's just that I don't know what's so good about big breasts!

    Some scientists say that bigger breasts are more attractive because the male human mind is told that bigger breasts means easier to produce milk, meaning good mommy for a baby, meaning they like to have sex. Which isn't always true.

    So I'm not sure why men like big boobs. Although, some guys do prefer small ones.

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