Sex & Vibrator? Guys, Would You Be Offended if a Girl Used One During Sex?

The only way I can orgasm is through clitoral stimulation,like oral,cause fingering doesn't do squat for me.But my current boyfriend won't go down on me,yes I do shave and I'm clean,but he won't,i've asked and asked,but he's said no.Every time we have sex,he has an orgasm,but I don't.Soo,I was thinking,maybe I could use a vibrator during sex to stimulate myself,but I was thinking some guys might be offended if girls bring out toys.So I want other guys perspectives before bringing this up or doing so? Would you be offended? Should I ask?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • The first girl I ever dated had never used one. So I'll give the same advice I got from One of my wisest friends when it comes to sex. He told me that a vibrator during sex is an awesome thing especially for the two of you to bond. He also told me to make sure that to make sure that she only use it when I was around it was a very powerful tool indeed. So I say go for it. just be careful with how you word everything so he doesn't feel bad that he isn't making your ends meet.

  • girls do not understand because they do not have the same thing for guys, if a guy wanted to use his hand or a flesh light( just as an example not saying anyone would use that weird thing ) rather then the perfectly healthy beautiful women laying next to him it is offensive point blank

Most Helpful Girls

  • If he's not attempting to stimulate you the way you need to get you off, or making an effort to pleasure you, I wouldn't give a crap about whether he feels offended. He's offending you in the first place by not putting effort into giving you pleasure, especially when you've communicated to him what you need and he refuses you. Sex is supposed to be a give and take, reciprocated thing, not a one way street.

  • I'm not a guy but I can tell you I've never gotten off from sex either and all of my bfs I've asked would be offended if I tried it. They wanted to be the reason I have an orgasm.

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  • Just be careful that he doesn't feel offended because it could hurt his ego a little bit.

    Just try and ask the question lightly.

    bye

  • personally I don't mind, I find it pretty hot making out with a girl and she's going to town on herself at the same time. definately ask, and if he complains point out that he won't give you head and its only fair that you get to orgasm too.

  • i love using toys on my girlfriend I find it very erotic... you need to have an orgasm to not just him

  • Would I mind if my girlfriend used a vibrator during sex?

    I wouldn't mind if she used one during lunch.