My girlfriend is a little freaky which is fine. She however bought a riding crop whip. Well, when she gets p*ssed off at me she'll wait for an...
My girlfriend is a little freaky which is fine. She however bought a riding crop whip. Well, when she gets p*ssed off at me she'll wait for an opportunity to use it (usually after I get home from being out when I'm buzzed) Anyways last night I got home and she whipped the hell out of my rear. I have to stay still because if I don't she'll hit my d***, my balls, my face wherever it lands. Is this normal and do girls like that type of thing or just mine? I don't mind doing different things but she seems to think she's onto something and does'nt hesitate to break that whip out now. She even threatens me with it when were out..Like she'll say if you don't shut up your going to get it when we get home.
I had a girlfriend that loved that type of thing...I would let her do whatever because she was soo hot until I could'nt take it anymore. She's doing it because she's a freak and she has found someone that she can act out her desires on. Just deal with it
"She even threatens me" shy women won't even say a word aside from craving more attention. Some average->Attractive women won't even say a word either, they have better things to do than beating you with a whip.
Haha I'm sorry, I can just picture you jumping and blocking your body parts as she is in a leather cop outfit like "bitch! take it! You've been a bad boy"... *Eyeroll*
Regardless, I would NEVER let a woman hit me in the d*** or balls, even the face would be an insult alone.
Some girls can like the feeling of being in control and dominant in the bedroom. Usually this kind of play stays in the bedroom. The purpose of such practices is to heighten enjoyment and the senses in play. It's supposed to be erotic and role play, not actual punishment. Talking about it in public can be sexy and fun as foreplay and anticipation, but that's only when the act is enjoyable. It doesn't sound like you are enjoying it. Especially since being hit in the face isn't sensual in any way. It seems like she is more sadistic than anything else.
If you do enjoy it, then go for it and have fun. While many girls like to play with dominance in the bedroom, because of seemingly sadistic tendancies, I have to say I don't think there are many girls quite like yours.
It sounds a bit controlling and scary. I've never had a girl do that to me. If it bothers you, flat out tell her you don't think it's hot. If she keeps it up, then start thinking about alternative plans.