How long does it take for a guy to get horny again after sex?

My guy just does that, a few minutes after sex he's acting horny and foreplaying again. It's quite nice, but is that even normal? How does it work for you ppl?
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  • It varies by guy and, in theory, takes a lot longer the older we get. Personally I've been blessed/cursed with what I'm told is unusual staying power. Basically, immediately after I cum I'm too sensitive to keep going at full speed, but if I maintain some light stimulation on my penis (like gentle stroking of just the shaft, or if I'm not using condoms and I just stay inside the vagina with some reaaaaaly gentle thrusts) I can stay hard and go for round two after about a minute to let the nerve endings settle down. At that point, though, it usually takes me a long time to cum again and more often that not I'll end up stopping because after, like, an hour, I get physically tired and it seems like my girlfriend isn't enjoying it so much as she's enduring it.

  • Can you add more to these?
    These things are at play to spark such an event
    .. he's not had sex for awhile & span this varies
    .. youth
    .. after even sex, he considers your body beauty queen/porn star/actress HOT enough for his little head to want to do you more
    .. he's rested from the work week
    .. you are willing, even enthusiastic during/after, anything goes
    .. when "the fit" is great, it whets the appetite for more & more (it's not the size of either party)
    .. venue is relaxing & no stress, distractions, interruptions

    • Yeah.. Those make a lot of sense now. I just thought there was supposed to be a general feeling of tiredness, and a lot of guys even just want to sleep so badly shortly after..

    • You thought VERY correctly... most times

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  • It varies with each session, probably largely due to how much foreplay there was, how long ago our last session was, etc..

    Sometimes, he'll stay hard right after cumming and also be ready for round 2 immediately after. Other times, he'll need 30 minutes-an hour for the refractory period to pass and be able to get it up again.

  • Guys have a refractory period. It's different in all men, it basically means they need a certain amount of time for their body to recover and to get ready again. Some men can keep going others need a few hours. Most men know their bodies well enough to gauge how long it takes for them

  • it's normal. once a guy or girl "cums" they can feel like they are ready to go again after a few minutes. It depends on their libido.

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  • Horny? if i'm still in bed with the lass that doesn't stop really. Ready to go again? bout 20 minutes usually, but I fill that gap (ha) with some other stuff

  • Depends on how attracted I am to the woman. More attraction, less time in between rounds.

  • You will find that every guy is different. The younger he is the faster he will be able to go again. It also depends on how long it has been since he has had sex or masturbated.

    • My ex was 49 and could get it up again four mins after he came lol.

  • I can still feel horny shortly after but usually it's 20-30 min after before I can get hard again.

  • I generally take much less time to recover after sex with my partner than after masturbating. So this isn't unusual.

  • It depends on the guy and especially on the girl. I've been instantly horny with a girl who I loved and desired, but I've also been "so done with sex forever" after one other girl. You should take it as a compliment if he wants you even after his physical need is satisfied.

  • Up till the age of 25 or so I could go all night. When I first got with my ex we were at it day and night for nearly a month until life intruded and we had to go back to work. All it takes is good foreplay and you can magic up a hard on from nothing. Even if you've already done it 7 times in the last couple of hours. They were the days

  • For me, 15 seconds to 2 days. But usually 30 min.

    • wide range...

  • It is exactly the same for every guy. 5 hours and 23 mins and 10 seconds.