What if my ex girlfriend thinks I'm a pervert because I said I would have sex with her?

[Anonymous]

OK, me and my EX girlfriend were going out for some time. I use to talk to her cousins and we were real good friends. But one day her cousin asked me would I have sex with her and I said yeah.i wasn't gonna lie and say no but I think this was the biggest mistake I made because I think this is why my ex hates me now. My ex never did like sex.she always said it was nasty. that's y I never had mentioned anything about it to her kuz I thought if I told her that I would hav sex with her she would get mad at me and think that I'm a pervert or something. I am far from a pervert though. but I mean come on,what boy wouldn't have sex with his gf?! I can't help it, I'm a boy! a boy is gonna like sex! but anyway wen me and my ex broke up, she told her cousins stop talking to me since we don't go out anymore and I think her cousin told her that I would have sex with her and that's y she hates me now because at first she talked to me but now she doesn't.

[Michaeldurrant]

Shes not ready.. It sounds like she's so not ready that it bothers her...

Most likely her cousin said somthing..

You need to gain her trust again.. She probably thinks your thinking of it 24/7 now...

You and a few more people need to hang out..

Not just the 2 of you.. Somwhere public so she doesn't feel threatend...

I know it sounds deep... but she will get over it...

[Anonymous]

Doubt she'll think that..every girl should know a teenage boy thinks about that if not

idk where they been..she proabably just doesint wanna be pressured into it.

[Anonymous]

hehe...something like tht happened with me and my bf! lol! yes all boys think like tht. doubt thts wht happend!