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I Think My Boyfriend Might Be Bi-Curious. I Thought It Was Just A Drunken Experience. Is This Normal?

So I've currently been dating my boyfriend for 10 months and I think he might be bi-curious or even bi-sexual. A few weeks ago we were in bed, after a couple drinks, he says to me "You can do 'whatever' you want to me tonight." Well.. me being curious, grabbed his ass as I kissed his neck to see how he would react. He seemed to like it the more I squeezed it. As things got more intimate he pulled my hand closer to his.. well.. I'm sure you can imagine. So me, drunk and feeling experimental, took the plunge. He seemed to enjoy it quite a bit. I thought it might be just a drunken experiment but last night, the same thing happened. In the past I've jokingly made comments about how he fantasizes about taking it from his idolized guy celebrity and because he's 20 but only ever been with two girls. And now I've got to thinking. Is my boyfriend bisexual or bi-curious? If not, is it more common than I think for a straight guy to like their behind getting played with? I also have reason to believe that he's cheated on me with one of his guy friends in the past. Please help.
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Thanks guys, you've been helpful. He admires Jensen Ackles, I imagine it's more or less though cause that he wishes that he was more like him, he's stunning. And even if my boyfriend was bi-anything, I still love him and I don't mind being adventurous.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • i don't think that just because he enjoys being played with in that area that it makes him bi. it is not uncommon for those who are comfortable with their bodies and themselves to explore and enjoy. if you suspect he has cheated on you that is a whole other thing. you could just ask him and see if he stammers. did you ask him if there is a guy celebrity that he is attracted to..or did he just share that with you?

    • I love everything about women and I’m not attracted to men, guys kissing grosses me out, but i love sucking big fat cock as it cums in my mouth and I’ve love swallowing if I’m really turned on, probably because its so fucking taboo, but I also fantasize about my girl fucking a guy or guys with me there, probably because cock also turns me on. I experimented when I was really young but didn’t realize until hiking through the woods and finding a porn mag with gigantic cocks shooting giants loads in the are and I got really hard fast so I embrace it

  • rubbing a guys p spot is the most pleasurable thing.. if he liked it it doenst make him bi.. and if he's sleeping with his guy friends... then he needs to get checked for any std's before you continue to sleep with him... because even having sex wiht anotehr man once, he could contract HIV. So just be careful. and COMMUNICATE wiht him.

  • no this doesn't make him bi. some guys just like having their butt squeezed or "assplay" as they usually call it. my boyfriend likes his ass squeezed although I've never went any further than that since I don't like things like that. but its nothing bisexual.

    • Getting your ass eaten is awesome and I don’t think you’re bi if your not attracted to mens bodies and face, a lot of straight guys like sucking cock or vice versa

Most Helpful Guys

  • there's a lot more to being bi/gay than the physical act. beyond the most superficial level, it's really got nothing to do with that. plenty of open minded completely hetro guys will experiment with the five hole (theirs or their gfs :)

    why do you think he's been with his male friend? that and his fascination with male celebrities seem more relevant.

  • If a man is in a straight relationship with a woman, self-identifies as straight, enjoys straight sex, and has had straight relationships EXCLUSIVELY, but he likes assplay, he's probably a straight guy, who likes assplay.

    You might want to consider the possibility that the bi-boy energy in this relationship isn't his, but yours.

    • Actually I think you're right. I'm the more dominant one in the relationship and the crazier one in bed. My birth sign is Scorpio, so I have a lot of sexually energy. Where as my boyfriend is a Pisces, very introverted and shy. I had to make the first move when we first met, so yes, that does make a lot of sense to me. Thanks for your help, I feel more at ease now.

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  • Question for you, if he is bi, or bi-curious, would you want to have a threesome with one of his bi friends? It might be the hottest sexual experiences you will ever have.

  • I don't think there's anything remotely gay about a man enjoying his ass grabbed or touched. It's an erogenous zone for men and women.

  • i think Jensen Ackles can make any guy bi-curious..he's freakin' hot lol

  • Your boyfriend is bi-sexual.

    • I’m not into anal penetration at all girl or guy and I’m not attracted to men, kissing a guy would make me puke, I love women all of them but I love sucking huge cock. So bi or straight with taboos?

  • there is no problem with assplay. if he likes it then he likes it keep up the good work(:

  • Assplay is just another fun way to experience pleasure. If he likes d*** - other than his own - then start asking questions.

    • Haha, that's not the case. I think he's in the clear.

  • Ask him can you use a strap on with him

  • No he is not Bi at all..even I like this act a lot when my girlfriend plays with my butt... ita a another kind of pleasure..

  • I’ve found that a lot of Guys if not most are curious and or bisexual. You’d be shocked to see how many married men like either sucking cock, have another guy blow them or are full bi. The most common is guys wanting to suck cock followed by wanting to fuck a guy

  • My boyfriend goes on Craigslist and sends emails to trans and I'm worried he is bi curious or just wants to hit it from the back but why trannys

  • I take it you where playing with his ass? Just because a guy likes his ass being played with it dose not mean he is gay. Do a google search on prostate orgasm's. That why some guys like anal so much

  • "there is truth in every joke" some old saying

    im not the guy the to take it up the ass nor do I swing that way but you can stimulate the prostate I think when you do that... if you ever watched college trip you will see what it does

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