Bra During Sex? Guys, would you understand/be ok with it?

My breasts are not attractive and they aren't something any guy,whether he's in love with me or not,would want to see,I guarantee. So when I start having sex I plan on keeping my bra on,so the guy doesn't have to look at them. Guys would you be OK with that?
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Btw, I can't afford surgery that's why I haven't them. But if I could I would
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Most Helpful Guys

  • An ex-girlfriend I've been with had the same worries (ps. we did not break up over this issue!)... she preferred to keep her whole shirt on instead though. I respected that, but just could not really understand why she had to do that (at the time). The big problem was that she also had a real mental hang up over it, so when I asked her more about why she was was so concerned about it she would get really annoyed and that whole cycle really affected our relationship at that time. We finally got past the whole thing unexpectedly one night when she was finally ready... and that was really great for both of us: she wasn't stressed up and self conscious about her whole body... and we had some really good times after that. Hope you'll get there in the end... the problem you've got is something a lot of girls do struggle with, but once you let go of that mentally you'll never look back!

  • I'm sure your breasts are fine. But leave your bra on. If your agressive enough about pleasing your man he won't even notice or care that your bra is on. Personally I like my girl to leave her bra on. She always takes it off really fast before I get a chance to enjoy her in lingerie. That bring me to another idea. Buy some nice lingerie and say you want to leave it on.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I've seen many pairs of breasts in my life, and I doubt they're as bad as you make them seem. I'm assuming you either have stretch marks, large nipples, inverted nipples, or hair around your areola. All are very common, so you shouldn't be ashamed. Like everyone else says, if you're having sex with a guy who loves you, I doubt he will care. He loves you for you. But if you're still feeling self-conscious, try having sex in the dark. That way you can take your bra off and he won't see a thing. And if you're still really nervous, maybe you should rethink having sex in the first place? You shouldn't be uncomfortable, maybe a bit nervous at first, but it shouldn't be all you think about when you're having sex.

  • Lots and lots of girls feel the same way about their breasts as you do, and I can assure you that it's highly unlikely that they are actually *that* bad. If a guy likes you enough to be attracted to the rest of you, it's ridiculously improbable that anything about your breasts could possibly particularly turn them off.

    • It's not just low self esteem.they are unattractive, I promise.I don't have any insecurity issues about any other part of my body,but trust me,I know what I'm talking about

    • Why do you think they aro unattractive? What's "wrong" with them?

    • I agree with Rainbows

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  • I know it says Guys would you be okay with it , but Honestly If a Guy loves you, He would want you see you no matter what, and truth is, most guysdon't even really care, their just blown away when they see your breasts and get to feel them evantually ;)

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  • Specifically to the question, most guys would have no problem having sex while you kept your bra on. That said, I think most of them would probably be more disturbed by your not wanting them to see you. Everyone is insure about something on their body, but if you aren't comfortable enough to be naked with your man, are you sure you are ready for sex?

    Like Cute1223455 said, really, most guys are going to be ecstatic about seeing and feeling them regardless of their measure of perfection.

  • Ehh sure, to begin with. But I would expect her to take it off eventually, once she got more comfortable with her physical appearance and sex. Because I don't think I would mind, I don't know what they look like though..

    What's wrong with them anyway? Sorry for asking, curious :-\

    • I don't really wanna say,it's embarrassing

  • I will not mind it because I want to make her happy. I like the feeling of some material on my skin.